My wife and I are not swingers but we are intrigued by swingers clubs. We've always fantasized about watching others having sex or being watched ourselves. Are there any couples out there that have visited a swingers club not to participate as swingers but just to see what it's like and/or just to be a voyeur and fulfill a fantasy of watching others having sex or be exhibitionists and maybe do some things in plain sight of others so that they could see you.
We've seen that there is a swingers club in Vegas called the Rooster club that we might visit next time we go to Vegas. Anyone been there? Any advise?
Not really an organized club with a designated clubhouse, but when we were in our twenties, David and I were in a small group of couples who were all friends, or friends of friends who were swinging with each other, meeting in each others homes about once a month, and trading partners in open swaps. We could all watch each other having sex, or just get to know new couples and arrange a private visit to each others homes. The group was by invitation only, so not just anyone could show up and participate.
Just go and observe and get to know members. Don't exceed your limits or your comfort level until you're ready. Never be pushy, but ask questions from the sponsor members. Usually, these places are very easy-going with new members, but if expectations make you uncomfortable, bow out and look for a different club/group.
I have been to a few but not for a few years - I was single then and still am - I have been there with both male and female partners and found the whole situation fascinating. You had to be a couple to attend. Our main problem as single females was the married males - particularly the older generation - they were more demanding of us than many of the others. It was interesting to see how the couples engaged with each other. Often we saw just the partners swap with each other and there were times particularly the women who wanted other women and that was quite enjoyable as far as I was concerned as a bisexual. I wasnt interested in what their husbands were doing, I was there to enjoy myself. Not being an exhibitionist I preferred the quieter areas where we could engage more or less in seclusion. I would never go just to be a spectator - I wanted to a part of the action and I was. Would I go again - not any more, a couple of times was enough. Now I am happy to enjoy my FWB group of 6 and we can do everything we desire when and with whom we please.
