Did we do socks and sandals? Cause believe me, I'd run a mile.
On the smoking issue, the last person I thought I would be with is a smoker. He is the love of my life and I did have to come to terms with his smoking. But I love him deeply, and though I'd really like him to quit, I put up with the smoking because of the man he is. Amazing, affectionate, sensous...I could go on and on. So never say never....you just don't know what is in your future.
" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
Rude people and there are a number of them on Lush.
Rude people and there are a number of them on Lush.
Initially, when people can't write or spell correctly.
There's a qwerty keyboard in front of them and they still think they're texting.
Then if I'm out and about, people that dress like slobs, too much cosmetics and a gutter-mouth from all genders.
Pause for a moment and think what you're about to say, then delete the 'F'-bomb, 'C'-bomb and find a better description.
Just think, instead of calling someone a 'Creep' refer to them as 'A classic example of Slow-Plastic-Deformation'.
to add to what i posted and seeing how others have spoken about hygiene: Guys please clip and take care of your hands and feet and oral hygiene is a must! Another turn off is a fully manscaped guy! Please leave at least a little on your chest!
Beards.
Beards with bits of food in!!
Teeth with bits of food in!!!
Bad hygiene.
Full beards on women just doesn't do it for me
“It's nice sometimes to open up the heart a little and let some hurt come in. It proves you're still alive.”
A bad attitude. Not necessarily a bad mood because of things that went wrong during the day, that's at least understandable. A bad overall attitude though is a huge turn off. Don't like a girl who's too arrogant or in your face. I like a girl who's confident, but with a sweet, kind personality.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
That foo foo lame shit...I ain't wit it.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
What turns me off immediately?
..rudeness & bad manners
..bad teeth, bad breath, bad hygiene
..using drugs &/or regular drinking-alcohol
..someone who constantly blames other people for their problems & takes no responsibility
..lack of humility
..self-absorbed/selfishness
..flakiness & insincerity: saying one thing & doing another
..cowardice
..bad grammar or crudeness w/out care
..argumentativeness & antagonistic personality
..those who just like to hear themselves talk (and especially those who talk loud or abrasively)
..spending too much time on outward appearance (& not enough on the inner/other)
..prejudice, lack of empathy
..prudishness
..a country bumpkin
..low pants (intentional or not)
..someone who needs attention
..overly hairy guy (I like long hair & some hair, but I mean bad back hair, etc.)
..bald/balding (even shaved heads I do not like & I am not fond of crew-cuts)
..neck beards
..emo
..guys who shave chest, arms, etc. (not because they have to - more metro or femme)
..people who have no empathy or care for animals or mistreat them in ANY way
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ALL of the above.......and especially if they have dandruff !
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
A man with dirty, long raccoon-like nails will turn me off IMMEDIATELY!!! I have a thing for hands so even if a man has chewed up nails and cuticles, that will make me throw up in my mouth- just a little. On the flip side of the coin he doesn't have to get a weekly mani but PLEASE cut and clean those nails and put some hand cream on those ashy knuckles.
The inability to string two sentences together in a conversation and greasy hair.
Bad breathe, bad hygiene, smokers!
Impoliteness to servers, RUDENESS, Haughtyness.....
xx SF
(Although a bit of haughtyness is always fun to fuck out of her, mind you...)
Its quite a long list, actually. Its a miracle I have any lovers at all!
In business many things.
Personally - guys kissing passionately.
Arrogance
Close mindedness
Bad hygiene
Missing teeth
Bad skin
Anger
People who judge of others for their looks, their way of dress, their speech, their smell, their personality, etc .... no one is perfect.
Bad manners and being just plain rude or inconsiderate.
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Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Arrogance
Rudeness
Bad manners
Body odour
Bad body odour
Arrogance
Bad Breath
Rudeness
Opinionated
Know it alls
Gross cigarette breath.
Poor oral hygiene.
Bo.
Braggers.
People that don't respect themselves enough to at attempt to groom themselves.
Over the top tattoos and body piercings.
People that flaunt their gayness.
Interrupters.
Valley girls. (Like bitchin dude)
Bad hygiene, for me that's a deal breaker
Sandals and socks, this is just so wrong ?