Interested to hear from the guys regarding what turns them on about sharing your wife with another man? Not cuckolding. But just seeing or knowing your wife/gf is having sex with another man. Would prefer detailed answers!
Hi Jean,
Let me give some input to your request. I'm the 'other man' to a married couple. She visits me alone and sometimes her hubby comes to watch - he tends not to join in. I'd known her for some time and then she asked me to have sex with her, telling me it was with full approval of her husband. When just the two of us are together we do talk about their motivation for what I find a wonderful arrangement. And it is their, not just his or hers. He knows she loves sex and needs a lot of it. He wants to/loves to see her enjoying herself and being satisfied sexually. He is also a voyeur. She loves the extra sex, she loves the variety of partner. And they have great sex before and after we have a session.
All in all, this works very well for all three of us!
R
For me it's not so much about seeing her with another man but more about watching her enjoy sexual pleasure. It's the combination of the voyeur in me and the exhibitionist in her. Whether it is with another man or another women or even just watching her masturbate it turns me on tremendously to watch her perform sexually.
We spent several years in the swinging lifestyle. It wasn't something we just decided to do, it was something we let evolve in our marriage. She's bi and she got into an affair with coworkers that like her, were married. This led to several threesomes, but it was mff. However, this led to some weekend get togethers with all the hubbies there as well that turned to orgies and swapping. That group relationship there ended in some bad drama. We found another couple in our area, nobody worked together, that was a big key as to why it worked out better. After a first meet in a hotel, we began meeting at each others homes. I was usually too busy with the other wife to really notice my own wife's pleasure. But I did get to watch her in action to some extent and she was so hot! Seeing her pleasure, her expressions, her body during it all would really turn me on! Many times, when home alone just after a swing, we would immediately have sex just because we both were so turned on we would just have to let it out.