Backstory: my wife is pregnant with our third child. And as much as I love her and am excited to be a dad for the third time, she has been laid up in ways that make her unable to have sex. Or even talk about it.
So, while I was masturbating I decided that I would use that time to get myself ready for her. Instead of JUST watching porn that I find exciting, I am going to be working with the specific goal of building up my performance. I know nothing could COMPARE to being with my wife, but that's not in the cards right now. I miss her so much. We sleep in the same bed, but I still miss her.
I have also started using lube to masturbate. Took me FOREVER to try this! I'm 41 and I jist started! I can't believe what I was missing out on!
My method so far has been to find a video that I like, get very comfortable and settled. I start with a very small amount of lube, just to be a little easier. I use a very firm grip, to force blood through the shaft and tension to try and lengthen the ligaments at the base. I keep this up for a while, taking my time. It's about endurance after all. After a few minutes when I am good and firm but not fully erect, I add more lube and start to keep pace with what is going on in the video. At this point it's still the foreplay, so I usually switch to a loose grip to help simulate the feeling of a mouth.
I've found that this is becoming very beneficial as I can do this four to five times in a day. Also, my orgasms have gotten MUCH more intense!
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Hmm...
Not sure what this has to do with Health and Fitness.
Again, I suggest that for members to post thread topics they should have an avatar. It would at least show that they are putting in the minimum amount of work.
I would hate to see the tank turn into some silly replica of the comments page on a youtube video.
Not sure what this has to do with Health and Fitness.
Again, I suggest that for members to post thread topics they should have an avatar. It would at least show that they are putting in the minimum amount of work.
I would hate to see the tank turn into some silly replica of the comments page on a youtube video.
Saucy Little Minx ♥️
First, welcome to Lush! Take your time picking an avatar no rush you haven’t even been here 24 hrs.yet.
I believe the reason you chose to post it here is that it’s “Mental” Health
Best of luck with building up your performance you can never use enough lube in my opinion and I am sure your wife will appreciate the use of more lube especially after giving birth again ~ win win
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Happy Lushing!
I believe the reason you chose to post it here is that it’s “Mental” Health
Best of luck with building up your performance you can never use enough lube in my opinion and I am sure your wife will appreciate the use of more lube especially after giving birth again ~ win win
B.
Happy Lushing!