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What's your mental illness?

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I am very close with a couple of people who suffer from cyclical mood swings/depression. Even during their good mood swings they had trouble anything confrontational and regularly misinterpreted what people said or the tone in which it was said. During the bad swings they were intolerable to be around and totally irrational, angry, bitter, and confrontational with no sense of reasoning.

Once the doctor was able, after experimentation, to get them on exactly the right medication, their behaviour and attitude change was like a miracle. Their reasoning and interpretation abilities are what is considered normal with the right medication. Both are much happier.

The brain is an especially chemically reactive organ. Much more is known by the medical and scientific community about most of the other bodily organs than the brain. We should financially support medical science continuing studies to make advances in psychiatric treatment.
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opening up to others, taking the step of seeing someone, working at getting your illness under control instead of letting it control you - all really difficult and courageous steps. and while i may joke about my own issues, that's how i deal with them - everyone else's i take very seriously. *hugs* i hate the drugs. sometimes, tho, you need them. and sometimes, after a while, you can get off them. everyone is different. i know lots of people on meds whose lives are changed, for the better, because of them.
It's the opening up that is hard to do,especially in a public forum.I to have issues about taking meds, I have to take meds for something else for the rest of my days.It's hard to accept but not much choice,if I do have to also take meds for anxiety, I will. A small sacrifice for my health. It scares me a little because I don't know how it will affect me, but i will make sure my family knows what I take and how often,because knowing me i'll think I'm doing better and stop taking them.
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It's the opening up that is hard to do,especially in a public forum.I to have issues about taking meds, I have to take meds for something else for the rest of my days.It's hard to accept but not much choice,if I do have to also take meds for anxiety, I will. A small sacrifice for my health. It scares me a little because I don't know how it will affect me, but i will make sure my family knows what I take and how often,because knowing me i'll think I'm doing better and stop taking them.


having someone who knows you well, and loves you, and who you trust and is willing to pull you aside and say, hey, i think you're a little out of control right now - can we talk about it? helps tremendously - it really is hard to be objective about how you are doing when your mentally ill.

one good thing - i think that stigma of mental illness is not what it used to be now that there is so much conversation about it and so many people are coming 'out of the closet' about their struggles. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Just your garden variety OCD. My sister has it too.
I also have OCDs. I wish that I didn't.

Hi fruit4passion. Hugs for you.
Chronic Anxiety, Melancholy and frequent existential insanity.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
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I also have OCDs. I wish that I didn't.

Hi fruit4passion. Hugs for you.
Hi Rose, so nice of you, thank you so much
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Hi Rose, so nice of you, thank you so much


You're welcome.

For all:

My previous post may have seemed smartassed or trivial, however, i was being 100% serious. the solid, no doubts about it diagnoses are depression, PTSD, ADD, borderline personality disorder, panic attacks and anxiety. i have to carry a clean wash cloth in my purse to roll up and put in my mouth when the anxiety gets too bad. It is either that or risk a chipped tooth, bitten tongue or some other similar nonsense. Suspected diagnosis is either autism spectrum disorder or aperger's syndrome. waiting to get tested for that. From clinical opinion, i was misdiagnosed as a rugrat, but that was a long time back. Psychology was not where it is today. The end result is that i do not sleep without medication. As in, if i don't have my night meds, i do not sleep. be it a couple of days or weeks. This sucks ass to no end. This isn't me trying to get sedatives, it has been documented in my charts each hospital stay, whether it be for surgery or psych ward.
Sometimes I feel like flying like a bird, heading towards my friend or gf, whereas actually I'm in office, class or at home... and last time it happened when I was in the bathroom... Don't know what type of mental illness is this :P
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You're welcome.

For all:



A message we all need to hear.

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As to what my illness is; It's kind of like me, not all that important... But, what I did come here to say is, that I'm lucky enough to have a doctor that believes that EVERY person is unique... When I go to see him the first question that he ask me is," What can I do to help YOU today?" Thank the cosmos for this extraordinary blessing!!! Unfortunately for me, When it comes to pets, I only wish that I was able to show them the love that they would so freely give to me...
I reach out to every one struggling and those who have come to terms with mental issues x x x
I have never been diagnosed with a current mental illness or had any kind of therapy for a mental condition. **REDACTED BY MODERATOR**

Moderator's note (HeraTeleia): Brandie, this is not the place or thread to flog your flimsy story about being a supposed nymphomaniac, nor is it the place or thread to tout your supposed recounting of various sexual adventures. I personally do not care if you feel the need to lie, and lie flagrantly, about your nonexistent sex life, your nonexistent work life (see: your profile), and your nonexistent "hotness", but Gil is right--this is not the place or time to demonstrate your skills as a raconteuse. Please stop. Thank you.
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I have never been diagnosed with a mental illness or had any kind of therapy for a mental condition. I was diagnosed with semi nymphomania. An explanation follows:

Brandie


I got rid of the rest of your quote.

I don't think I have ever seen a more inappropriate response to a serious thread. Your "semi nymphomania" comparison is just silly. Dating your teacher, being taken to a gang bang weekend, trading sex for TV, raising kids, WTF?

You trying to promote your stories here within this thread is just another of many things I find disturbing about your post.

For those of us who struggle daily with serious mental illness this kind of post is horrifying and pathetic.

I have battled all my life with depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety problems.

I'd expand but your post made me feel physically sick. Go post it somewhere else. It is not appropriate to leave it here.
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I got rid of the rest of your quote.

I don't think I have ever seen a more inappropriate response to a serious thread. Your "semi nymphomania" comparison is just silly. Dating your teacher, being taken to a gang bang weekend, trading sex for TV, raising kids, WTF?

You trying to promote your stories here within this thread is just another of many things I find disturbing about your post.

For those of us who struggle daily with serious mental illness this kind of post is horrifying and pathetic.

I have battled all my life with depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety problems.

I'd expand but your post made me feel physically sick. Go post it somewhere else. It is not appropriate to leave it here.
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I got rid of the rest of your quote.

I don't think I have ever seen a more inappropriate response to a serious thread. Your "semi nymphomania" comparison is just silly. Dating your teacher, being taken to a gang bang weekend, trading sex for TV, raising kids, WTF?

You trying to promote your stories here within this thread is just another of many things I find disturbing about your post.

For those of us who struggle daily with serious mental illness this kind of post is horrifying and pathetic.

I have battled all my life with depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety problems.

I'd expand but your post made me feel physically sick. Go post it somewhere else. It is not appropriate to leave it here.


The quote is still there but thank you for this response. I'm truly sorry about your depression and other mental illnesses.

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I reach out to every one struggling and those who have come to terms with mental issues x x x


Thanks sweetie
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I got rid of the rest of your quote.

I don't think I have ever seen a more inappropriate response to a serious thread. Your "semi nymphomania" comparison is just silly. Dating your teacher, being taken to a gang bang weekend, trading sex for TV, raising kids, WTF?

You trying to promote your stories here within this thread is just another of many things I find disturbing about your post.

For those of us who struggle daily with serious mental illness this kind of post is horrifying and pathetic.

I have battled all my life with depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety problems.

I'd expand but your post made me feel physically sick. Go post it somewhere else. It is not appropriate to leave it here.


First I’m sorry that you and many others have to deal with mental illness or any other serious illness.
Also that it made you physically sick.

The question was, “What’s your mental illness?” I feel my answer is appropriate to the question as this is the only issue I have ever dealt with that, at one time, fell into the mental illness category.

My semi nymphomania was a diagnosis by an Air Force Dr and at the time of diagnosis was considered a form of mental illness. It was removed from the list of mental illnesses but it is still a controversial issue as to rather it should still be on the list.

Dating Teach, who I dated for 4 years, the gang bang weekend, are an explanation of how I became addicted to extremely strong orgasms. Not watching TV, not having kids, etc explains how I had the time to devote several hours a day to sex. A question I have been asked many times. “How do you find the time for sex several times a day.”

I have seen many post mention the posters stories. I mentioned them in case others may be interested in the event that brought me into the lifestyle where my orgasms got much stronger.

Brandie
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Brandie



Detailed descriptions of you having sex with your former teacher in no way should be part of any serious discussion about mental illness. You admit that you know "semi nymphomania" is not considered a mental illness. It never was, nymphomania was at one time considered under the umbrella of deviant behavior. I have no idea what you mean by semi nymphomania. I hope you consulted another doctor, a competent one. You should read the OP's post again. No one in this thread asked you how you have time to have sex several times a day.

I am sure you can find a thread that is more suited to sharing the details of your "affliction"

Gillian
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Detailed descriptions of you having sex with your former teacher in no way should be part of any serious discussion about mental illness. You admit that you know "semi nymphomania" is not considered a mental illness. It never was, nymphomania was at one time considered under the umbrella of deviant behavior. I have no idea what you mean by semi nymphomania. I hope you consulted another doctor, a competent one. You should read the OP's post again. No one in this thread asked you how you have time to have sex several times a day.

I am sure you can find a thread that is more suited to sharing the details of your "affliction"

Gillian


The Dr was the commander of the hospital, a Bird Colonal, and the Air Force found him competent. I believe the AF is much more qualified to determine he was competent than you are. The semi was there because I only met about half of the symptoms of nymphomania. This happened in the early 80s when nymphomania was considered a mental illness. It was removed sometime after I stopped seeing the Dr. Which was only 3 or 4 visits. I did not say any one in this thread ask me how I found the time. The question has been asked of me hundreds of times over a period of over 3 decades.

Brandie
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Brandie


If you only had half the symptoms then you didn't meet the criteria for that diagnosis.

You do not have a recognizable mental illness.

No one posting in this serious thread wants to hear the details of your sex life.

You are in the wrong thread.

There is no productive reason for you to continue to post here.
To deal with my various diagnoses I have been on countless medications over my lifetime starting when I was a child. They either stop working or the side effects become untenable. There are times I have been able to go without meds. I do know enough when it is time to return to the medication route.

Therapy plays an important part too. Or at least it did when I was younger. As I have gotten older I have learned to deal with things myself and ask for help when it is needed.

It took a long time but I have made peace with the fact that I will always have issues with my mental health. That was the hardest thing to admit and accept. My life got a little bit easier when I was able to do that.
Not diagnosed with anything, but my anxiety can be pretty crippling at times. I've tried, and still practice mindfulness meditation and a little CBT, but for me the only think that keeps devil down in hole is running.

I recognise that this, my anxiety, is part of me and a kind of side effect of things that I like about me (I'm empathetic, hard working, socially conscious and driven to do my best) and I try hard every day to live with and manage it. I wouldn't change me, I'd just like to keep that part of me from dominating my life as, at times, it can.
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The Dr was the commander of the hospital, a Bird Colonal, and the Air Force found him competent.


Odd, isn't it, that your "Hubby" would be in the Air Force for decades and yet you still would not be able to spell "colonel" correctly? Perhaps this is the correct thread for you, "Brandie", as both pathological lying and narcissistic disorder are listed in the DSM-V.
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My most dislikes are simply those who commit gossip, lies, terrorism, murder, theft,
take advantage, or harm others and animals in any way.

I consider all of these equally self-important, immoral, and inhumane,
practiced by those who think the rest of the world owes them something.
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My most dislikes are simply those who commit gossip, lies, terrorism, murder, theft,
take advantage, or harm others and animals in any way.

I consider all of these equally self-important, immoral, and inhumane,
practiced by those who think the rest of the world owes them something.


I have no idea what this has to do with being diagnosed with a mental illness.

One thing does stand out to me.

You state that you consider liars and gossips as equally "self-important, immoral and inhumane" as terrorists, murderers and thieves.

Seriously?

That is an extreme stance to take or are you suggesting they are all mental illness?

I do wish everyone would stay on topic. This thread deserves better.

I apologize to the OP for my part in that.
Quote by ivanka_simkiewisz
My most dislikes are simply those who commit gossip, lies, terrorism, murder, theft,
take advantage, or harm others and animals in any way.

I consider all of these equally self-important, immoral, and inhumane,
practiced by those who think the rest of the world owes them something.


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I have no idea what this has to do with being diagnosed with a mental illness.

One thing does stand out to me.

You state that you consider liars and gossips as equally "self-important, immoral and inhumane" as terrorists, murderers and thieves.

Seriously?

That is an extreme stance to take or are you suggesting they are all mental illness?




I guess you've sussed out what her mental illness is...
After I returned from Vietnam, I had recurring episodes of PTSD. Using a combination of psychotherapy and group therapy, I managed to overcome PTSD. I owe many thanks to my volunteer psychologist and my fellow group therapy members. I know that not all of them had the type of therapy success that I had, but they all had some success.