Hi I'm Allen I just got a question asking when your profile says you're a lesbian and and you want no guy I get it a woman is beautiful to Love everything about her is more beautiful than loving on a guy I just don't understand sometimes is cuz pass guys hurt you or you got bored with a guy or you just connect with a woman lot more than a guy but you won't give guy a chance even in a chat room ? Guy be respected & nice went you post .
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Hi I'm Allen I just got a question asking when your profile says you're a lesbian and and you want no guy I get it a woman is beautiful to Love everything about her is more beautiful than loving on a guy I just don't understand sometimes is cuz pass guys hurt you or you got bored with a guy or you just connect with a woman lot more than a guy ?
I will answer this in my own way, but I am not looking for a protracted discussion.
You are not going to find a single answer to your question. There is no 'one answer fits all' to questions like these. Everyone you talk to will have a different answer and a personal story that will probably not fit your limited choices here. They also probably not be interested in shared that story with someone who comes across the way your question does.
I will say that based on your question you seem to think being a gay/lesbian is a choice, and I am sure for some it is. For others it is so much a part of who they are, that any relationship with the opposite gender was the same as living a lie. For still others it is a response to abuse, not just simple 'hurt'. I know quite a few who simply connect better with their own sex and some who get nauseous at the idea of sex with another gender. The reasons are as endless as to why some people are straight.
My reasons are mostly spelled out in one of my stories (What a Difference a Day Makes) and in my profile, but in nutshell I got sick and tired of the emotional games played by men in general, which wasn't one of your options, was it?
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Hi Allen,
I suggest you have a look at the very long thread asking lesbians why not men.
There's a lot of detailed answers there.
I'd ask you to consider the opposite question.
If I were to ask you why no to sleeping with other men?
There's an awful lot of different ways to answer that question from the one word to the long essay on a personal journey of discovery to why only being with other men brings you joy.
Difference is beautiful and it takes all sorts to make a world.
I'd ask you to be very gentle with the way you ask that question some of my queer sisters get the suggestion made to them that they haven't met the right man yet.
It can come across as insensitive and make another feel uncomfortable.
So just bear that in mind.
As for me I went the long way to find my identity.
I started as a straight girl who fumbled around, became bi curious and did some more experimenting.
Identified as bi for a while and was finally shown the majesty that was my sapphic identity.
I did my time with men and they really didn't treat me very well or take care of my needs much.
The laziest, sloppiest , bedroom princess did more to make me happy then the greatest man I ever had in my bed.
But that's just me.
Some of my sisters didn't have a choice they were made the way they are and bear the scars from it.
I'm also lucky in that I'm Femme so don't draw a lot of attention but my butch sisters catch hell for being who they are.
So tread lightly, be respectful to those who answer and remember that not all of us want to answer this question.
Some of us have been answering it regularly for a long time.
Peace and love.
I suggest you have a look at the very long thread asking lesbians why not men.
There's a lot of detailed answers there.
I'd ask you to consider the opposite question.
If I were to ask you why no to sleeping with other men?
There's an awful lot of different ways to answer that question from the one word to the long essay on a personal journey of discovery to why only being with other men brings you joy.
Difference is beautiful and it takes all sorts to make a world.
I'd ask you to be very gentle with the way you ask that question some of my queer sisters get the suggestion made to them that they haven't met the right man yet.
It can come across as insensitive and make another feel uncomfortable.
So just bear that in mind.
As for me I went the long way to find my identity.
I started as a straight girl who fumbled around, became bi curious and did some more experimenting.
Identified as bi for a while and was finally shown the majesty that was my sapphic identity.
I did my time with men and they really didn't treat me very well or take care of my needs much.
The laziest, sloppiest , bedroom princess did more to make me happy then the greatest man I ever had in my bed.
But that's just me.
Some of my sisters didn't have a choice they were made the way they are and bear the scars from it.
I'm also lucky in that I'm Femme so don't draw a lot of attention but my butch sisters catch hell for being who they are.
So tread lightly, be respectful to those who answer and remember that not all of us want to answer this question.
Some of us have been answering it regularly for a long time.
Peace and love.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.
I've been listening to my kinky pencil here's my current work
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That almost sounds like some kind of incantation
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.
I've been listening to my kinky pencil here's my current work