Can anyone help? I am bi curious. Often use an anal vibrator but my wife wants to use a strap on. Can anyone suggest a good one to use?
I strongly recommend the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock strapon harness. It takes all sizes of toys, is adjustable to many hip sizes and stays put well. Ive had two other harnesses and find many don't offer eñough strap adjustment to accommodate the many sizes of women while allowing for a really secure fit.
I'm having lunch today with a lesbian friend who's also into strapon play so I'll let you know if she has any other suggestions.
I'd also suggest having a decent sized butt plug in for at least 10 minutes before she starts. It makes a huge difference in how wild she can play without hurting you. And of course, lots ánd lots of lube.
Thank you for your advice
My wife bought a Vibrating Feeldoe Classic strapless dildo. Was about $90, but I love the way it feels inside me!
I have worn it to give her double penetration too!
That's why I like the set up in the picture best it is totally comfortable and secure for hands free fucking with great stimulation for both. Every guy I've ever used it on said the part they liked best was that I came several times when using it on them. Every time the external cock moves it moves the one in me so I can come from a bj too lol
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! We tried the feeldo a couple times without success. I talked with my lesbian friend and she said it takes "killer abs" to keep it in place and if you're too wet, it moves around a lot. She likes it, but said it wasn't for everyone.