I had my first kiss with another girl and found it exciting and passionate. I had been set up by this girl at a party. I stopped when the crowd began encouraging her to strip me having exposed a breast.
Later she approached me to go outside and continue something I hag begun to enjoy. I did and an hour later we had successfully had sex together. She was lesbian and we continued the relationship until the day she realised I had been with a boy an hour or so earlier.
I began my bisexual life that night and lived in an active bisexual relationships to this day.
Bisexuality always seems to get a bad wrap because it's not easily defined. I know I'm attracted to women but I've never loved a women whereas I've loved quite a few men. I only question the use of trying to define my sexuality.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
When haven't I had doubts
No...not doubts. But I did identify as lesbian for many years after my (now) wife and I became a couple. It let me avoid conversations about how being bi doesn't mean I get one of each.
As I said a few years ago when this thread began, I knew I was Bi at a very young age. But after my divorce I was pretty much exclusive with women because I had lost my trust in men. I knew I could not be in a real long term relationship with a man again. So I began to wonder if I was a lesbian. But since I still loved the idea of sex with men I knew that was not the case.
So I am very Bi and very happy. I have a GF that I love more than anyone I have ever known. We are not married, don't want to be married, we love things how they are!! We both love sex with men and women and we do both. Although where we once played around a lot, we don't so much any more. Our extracurricular sex is limited to a very select few, except when we are on vacation of course!! HAHA
No I don't not have any doubts.
Been happy married around 45 years to my wife but when I was very young with my best friend I suck a lot of cocks. So I am bi. I,m 62 and have male friend that we have sex with once and a while. I could never fall in love with him just friendship and having a good time with what comes natural.
I always have doubts and was confused and still do but even younger I knew I loved both men and women.
I have never had doubts about my bisexuality. I've been attracted to men and women both before I even hit puberty. I've denied it because I knew my family would never quite get it.. But now that I'm an adult, I don't deny myself the pleasures of men and women.
I thought I was 100% straight. I've always looked at and admired women for a variety of reasons both physically, intellectually, personality, style, look etc but it was never a sexual attraction, never a fantasy either.
I can't explain why but now, at the age of 30, I'm experiencing stirrings of attraction towards women and if a women flirts with me (or at least that's my interpretation of what she's doing) I experience the same wave of nervous excitement and anticipation I do when a man I'm attracted to is hitting on me.
So I wouldn't class myself as bisexual as these are just feelings which haven't been acted on. That would then probably make me bi-curious but then again it might just be a phase I'm going through which comes to nothing.
My wife had so many doubts and questioned her feelings for such a long time. Eventually she sampled the delights of another woman and for sometime afterwards still had so many doubts. Now she has puts her doubts and questioned to rest and knows the immense pleasure of enjoying both men and women.
Thought about it for a few months after I started m/m sex. Ceased worrying about it for the 40+ years since. This is one of those things where over thinking it does no good.
I consider myself straight but in the past year or so have started to want sex with another woman. Sadly its never happened but I do have fantasies that one day it will.
Not sure if that makes me Bi or not...
I have had so many doubts, always felt I was lesbian trapped in a small town and having to be fake. Now I am more able to be myself (although still closeted) I think I am actually bisexual.
I'm male. My first bouts with sex were all with males until I was 17 did I have my first female encounter. I'm married to a woman for over 39 years now. Have had more male sex partners then females. But have had more sex with females then with males. Had a boyfriend for a few years but we went our separate ways not to long ago. Yes wife knew about him. I'm definitely bi, wife figured it out shortly after we married when in one of our three-somes I started giving our guest a bj.
I've had doubts in the sense that, for a long time, I never properly understood bisexuality and therefore my own sexuality.
There was a time when I was young that I was convinced I was gay. I never told anyone, and I certainly didn't have a boyfriend or anything, but I felt pretty sure I was gay. Then I started noticing girls more, and I started to think that I had been mistaken, or I had grown out of it or something.
So then I identified as straight for a long time. And that seemed to work, except that in private I still got aroused by images of attractive men and even gay porn, but I didn't really understand what that meant for my sexuality.
When I had a sexual encounter with a man, I tried to put caveats on my sexuality. I claimed I was sexually attracted to men and women, but only romantically attracted to women, which is legitimate but wasn't accurate for me. I guess I just didn't really know how to be bisexual.
Eventually I just embraced it and started properly identifying as bisexual. I still haven't really told my parents though because I don't think they would really understand it unless I had a boyfriend, which isn't really a good reason not to tell them. I guess I just take the view that my sexuality doesn't really concern them until I'm in a relationship.
So yes, I have doubted my sexuality in a way. But now I'm very comfortable with it, and I can be open with my friends and colleagues about it, and I'm happy with that aspect of my life.
All the time.... But I crave cut cock...
I can't say I ever remember having doubts. My toughest struggle is that I'm one of those rare birds who stays pretty close to the mean on the Kinsey Scale with relatively little fluctuation. In practice this means that I ALWAYS desire to have sex with BOTH genders simultaneously. This is a tough nut to crack, no apologies for the pun.
My wife is incredibly supportive and loves applying her strapon to my very fun loving bum. Then I push her down and cum in her pussy. But even that rewarding experience leaves just a bit of regret at not having that third person in play.
I had a great stable relationship with a swinging couple several years ago, and I'm looking to replicate that outside my marriage. (Yes, with the wife's knowledge and understanding) but that seems to be more rare than the elusive unicorn.
So, no doubts, but plenty of wishes!
I didn't know of my own bisexuality until late in life. If I looked at another woman it was her hair...her clothes...her shoes. I was so doubtful about being bi that the first time I was ever with another woman she wanted my husband too and I made him stay home in case it didn't work out. I didn't come up for air for over 3 hours. I found out that I'm not only bisexual but submissive to other women too...….that part came as a complete shock. I also found out I have an extremely long tongue...giggles.
i had sex with woman as submissive , pleasing more than having pleasure, i was not bi sexual , until few years ago, on holidays in Greece, i met a woman more mature than me, i was fascinated ........she make me feel like no one before , she make me understand that i was not straight or bi sexual..........i was only sexual...
I have never wanted to be anything but what and who I am. Ii love women and I love to have sex with men. I have more recenlty gegun to include kissing in my sex with men and I like that too. I also love sex with women so I am a bisexual whore for both men and women.
never any doubt,all of us played together and were naked all the time. I've been with both make and female cousins.
Initially I tried to 'be straight', but it simply didn't feel right or fulfilling. Once I discovered my true orientation I haven't doubted it or looked back.
Very interesting question. I have been bi for about 35 years. Really never had much conflict with it until I was married to a woman. Having my life with her was and still is great. Having a male s/o that I meet with weekly is great. At some point, I realized that if my wife (she knows) ever saw me engaged in sex with a man, it would shock her. I do things that I would never do in front of her. I'm sort of dom with her, yet somewhat of a sub with men. But I've never doubted what I am. I just go with the flow and enjoy the rides!
Not sure 'doubts' applies - when I was at university I met my first openly gay men, working in theatre. I was open to the idea from having read Heinlein and other authors who included it in their books (and a few books from my late stepbrother's collection!). I was still new to dating, etc,. and I remember thinking women were pretty complicated as it was, I wasn't sure I could cope with trying to figure out both women and men as partners at the same time! Then I went to work for the government and for a long time it was not an option because of that. Now in my late 60s I almost wish I was at university again.
