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As for the topic at hand No I never had any doubt. Fear of people close to me finding out, Yes. I accepted who I was at an early age & was fine with it. Too bad the rest of our society can't accept it.b8kcpHbQdWsNhE6D
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Bisexuals: have you ever had doubts about your sexuality?
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Quote by annatoys1
Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can.
This post is so nice on so many levels. You tried something that you hadn't even thought about, and yes the beer pong would have helped. But you let it happen and enjoyed it. I think too many people should relax and experiment a little, if they want to. I don't mean everyone should try it, but if you are enjoying something, let your inhibitions go and just enjoy the moment.
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Quote by annatoys1
Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can.
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From the first time I was tested and i enjoyed my first 'real' kiss with another girl I was hooked. Afterwards our kiss resulted in my first intimate same sex experience and from that moment on I have never doubted that I wanted to be, and WAS bi.
Rainbow Warrior
I've never had any doubts about my sexual attraction to both guys and girls, but I have wavered as to which gender I feel capable of being in a love relationship with. I've never been able to fall in love with guys, only girls, but I'm not sure if that's set in stone. The two girls I've been in love with so far in my life have both left me, while the guy who has been in love with me for the past 15 years has never left my side.
In-House Sapiosexual
I've never had any doubts about my sexuality. I never felt any guilt or discomfort about what I desired and wanted to give, even early on and before
I had the words to define it. Who to share that information with, was my challenge. Having more control of my life and who has access or influence
has pretty much made that not a
challenge.
I had the words to define it. Who to share that information with, was my challenge. Having more control of my life and who has access or influence
has pretty much made that not a
challenge.
? A True Story ?
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I wrestled with it for years. I had doubts daily, from the teen years of why I loved to dress in female clothing why I loved the way I looked and felt acting as a girl being a boy. Then married l love women but continued dressing and shaving my body to look and feel more fem. I fought with doubt as I had attraction to men their bodies and sexually. When I finally submitted to those desires and had sexual activity with another man I wondered even more why and who I was. After accepting myself as the person I am sexually with all the desires and needs I no longer have doubts about bisexuality and being attracted to both men and women.
I first got into masturbation when the Miley Cyrus picture scandal hit the fan when I was really young. Looking at those pics led to looking at other girls and I always got turned on by girls making out. Porn, especially straight porn grossed me out and it wasn't until I was a freshman or sophomore in high school that I actually started to enjoy it. I'd always been into guys romantically aside from a brief make out session in seventh grade with a friend. In ninety grade though I started to realize I had a crush on this girl who I knew was a lesbian. Three years later she was my first girlfriend. I've also had a serious relationship with a guy who I found sexually and romantically attractive. Sometimes I think I'm making it up in my head but then I remember her and how I check out girls more than is straight appropriate and I believe in my bi-sexuality again. It is hard though. I feel like people have a hard time believing I like both.
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Quote by Leatherneck
I'm bisexual, but sex with men is only sex. I have no opposition to the gay lifestyle.
im the same im bi not gay ,with men its just sex and no feeling of love just some good fun i have a friend whos gay he would love me to live with him but thats never going to happen its just about sex from time to time with men
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I've been having some problems like this very recently. I've been crushing on a girl who only knows me as a gay man. I've got all of those usual anxieties about crushing on someone who might not feel the same way... Long story short, she's been a friend for a very long time and I don't want to lose that for the sake of a relationship that probably won't work... blah blah blah, my problem.
I still have to out myself as a bisexual man to her. It's never been very important to me that people know, but I really hate being misunderstood. When I outed myself as a gay man, it was because I really thought that that's what I was. Now... I have to do it again. Shit.
I know how to take it slow when it comes to my own feelings, but I find it difficult to act on them because I hate being misunderstood so much. I don't know where that puts me in relation to your article... but I've often felt perfectly comfortable liking who I like.
I still have to out myself as a bisexual man to her. It's never been very important to me that people know, but I really hate being misunderstood. When I outed myself as a gay man, it was because I really thought that that's what I was. Now... I have to do it again. Shit.
I know how to take it slow when it comes to my own feelings, but I find it difficult to act on them because I hate being misunderstood so much. I don't know where that puts me in relation to your article... but I've often felt perfectly comfortable liking who I like.
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My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
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Quote by Warrior_Ink
I've been having some problems like this very recently. I've been crushing on a girl who only knows me as a gay man. I've got all of those usual anxieties about crushing on someone who might not feel the same way... Long story short, she's been a friend for a very long time and I don't want to lose that for the sake of a relationship that probably won't work... blah blah blah, my problem.
I still have to out myself as a bisexual man to her. It's never been very important to me that people know, but I really hate being misunderstood. When I outed myself as a gay man, it was because I really thought that that's what I was. Now... I have to do it again. Shit.
I know how to take it slow when it comes to my own feelings, but I find it difficult to act on them because I hate being misunderstood so much. I don't know where that puts me in relation to your article... but I've often felt perfectly comfortable liking who I like.
I understand what you mean. When you come out as gay you feel that there's no going back! It's a BIG thing mentally to come out as being gay and it's so easy to stay that way.
I think a lot of gay guys are like you. Bisexual, but nearer the gay side. My friend is the same but has always kept his bi side open.
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I think people (in general, including myself) are too quick to label themselves.
I was a very confused teenager, and some days now I'm still a very confused thirty-something. Others have written on this thread that a gay relationship lacks 'love and romance', and I do tend to find myself thinking that way too. However I have never experienced a gay relationship; just a quick 'wam, bam, thanks man' j/o or screw. So I have no right to think that way.
I identify myself as bisexual, because that is how my life is at the moment. I am currently happily married have every wish to continue in my 'straight' relationship. My wife knows I find other guys attractive. I have on occasion acted upon my cravings and doing so has made me unhappy every time, and now I have stopped. I respect my wife too much to wreck our marriage. The label is the problem. Just live your life, and be happy.
I was a very confused teenager, and some days now I'm still a very confused thirty-something. Others have written on this thread that a gay relationship lacks 'love and romance', and I do tend to find myself thinking that way too. However I have never experienced a gay relationship; just a quick 'wam, bam, thanks man' j/o or screw. So I have no right to think that way.
I identify myself as bisexual, because that is how my life is at the moment. I am currently happily married have every wish to continue in my 'straight' relationship. My wife knows I find other guys attractive. I have on occasion acted upon my cravings and doing so has made me unhappy every time, and now I have stopped. I respect my wife too much to wreck our marriage. The label is the problem. Just live your life, and be happy.
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Quote by JasperWalton
Just live your life, and be happy.
That is the bisexual's paradox, their Gordian Knot!
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I've never had any doubts when it came to my sexuality, I absolutely love men. I've only had a few experiences with girls, which were lovely, but it's not something I fantasize about or consider for more than fun. By definition I suppose this makes me bi but I don't feel that I am because it's not an ongoing thing for me, it's a once every every few years and if all the stars are aligned.
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with me I always wonder why I was not born a girl and want to really realy bad
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I have said this before, I think everyone is bisexual, some choose not to admit it and that is ok. Everyone should live as they want without judgment. In a perfect world, there would be no labels. Unfortunately, that world does not exist.
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Quote by dpw
I understand what you mean. When you come out as gay you feel that there's no going back! It's a BIG thing mentally to come out as being gay and it's so easy to stay that way.
I think a lot of gay guys are like you. Bisexual, but nearer the gay side. My friend is the same but has always kept his bi side open.
Self-identification isn't really my issue. I'm pretty comfortable with my feelings, but having to come out twice is pretty much the worst.
Also, I love how you said "the gay side" like it was synonymous with "the dark side". Does the gay side have snacks? I could go gay if you have snacks.
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My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
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Quote by BaritoneBoy
I have said this before, I think everyone is bisexual, some choose not to admit it and that is ok. Everyone should live as they want without judgment. In a perfect world, there would be no labels. Unfortunately, that world does not exist.
I agree with you totally.
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My wife expressed her curiosity for quite some time and after a lengthy discussion we decided to do something about it. After the first time there was a lot of soul searching and doubts but one thing we were certain about was that she thoroughly enjoyed the experience. Her bi curiosity is what led us into 'the lifestyle' and a few years on it's safe to say she is very comfortable with her feelings and has and still does enjoy getting sexual with other women. My stories tell of some of the experiences that this has led us into since.
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Quote by Warrior_Ink
Self-identification isn't really my issue. I'm pretty comfortable with my feelings, but having to come out twice is pretty much the worst.
Also, I love how you said "the gay side" like it was synonymous with "the dark side". Does the gay side have snacks? I could go gay if you have snacks.
I often refer to it as the dark side, lol.
Of couse I have snacks, I keep them in my bedroom if you'd like to follow me.
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To be honest I think my doubts were caused by my upbringing . Being the first daughter in an Irish catholic family with a stepfather who thinks being gay is a choice, I had friends who were lesbian , bi and gay but I never really understood. Then my first time was with a more well versed woman (I'm a female too) and it wasn't planned. We were fooling around at a sleep over and one thing lead to another. After that I knew I wasn't straight but I was scared to be anything else .
Eventually over the last four to five years I've learned to accept my self. I've actually come out to several of my best friends . I still question it and wonder if the times I've shared have been flukes or just a physical thing. Honestly if your not comfortable with the labels then don't label yourself . Just let things happen and have fun
Hope this helps !
Eventually over the last four to five years I've learned to accept my self. I've actually come out to several of my best friends . I still question it and wonder if the times I've shared have been flukes or just a physical thing. Honestly if your not comfortable with the labels then don't label yourself . Just let things happen and have fun
Hope this helps !
Being active in theatre at university that was where i first met gays personally - up till then they were only characters in books or movies. And I may have been curious but I remember thinking that figuring out women was hard enough without having to figure out guys as sexual partners as well! I also wanted a family and career and those weren't possible in those days unless you were straight. I only admitted to myself and my wife a few years ago that I'm really bi or pansexual - and usually monogamous - so I haven't really done anything outside of lush about the attraction.
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In High School there was a blonde guy with real dark eyes, I'm multi race and when I'd see him I couldn't take my eyes off him. Didn't have my first male male experience until I was in my 30's. I love women and was married but I still do play with 2 guys today...and I still think about that blonde guy.
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NOPE - love pussy but cock every now and then is fun and exciting
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I started questioning my sexuality when i was 12 or so. I always thought guys were cute and had crushes on them but then i fell for a girl in my class, my best friend. I thought we were just good friends. We were but she was not that close to me if you know what I am saying. Being naked together was too much for her. And that's when i realized i was different. Being bisexual and coming to terms with that, you often question, maybe i am lesbian and just not ready to admit that. That is society pressuring you. I love the bulge in a guys shorts and i love when a girl tells me she is wet. I am not a lesbian and i know that for sure! 
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I always seemed curious about both sexes as young as I could remember, played with other guys when a teen.
In part that is likely why I was an easy target for a neighbor male abuser, I was young he was well respected, made it easy to manipulate me.
I always wanted and liked girls and I and married, but from time to time I crave man on man sex, I enjoy sucking cock.
I can go years and not have these feeling, though when younger the feelings were stronger, as I was hornier.
Nothing is more pleasing that pleasuring my wife with oral and intercourse, I crave that as well.
I have no doubts I am bisexual, it all just depends on which was the pendulum is swinging, mine is more hetro of late.
Not been with another guy for 4 years but I do now have the craves for oral with a man.
Being spoiled 20 years ago with have a guy just like me for truly exploring our sexual fantasies.
For me sex with other guys is like a game of sports, no real emotions just lust.
Where with all the women I have been with any length of time emotions were/are a huge part of the sex.
In part that is likely why I was an easy target for a neighbor male abuser, I was young he was well respected, made it easy to manipulate me.
I always wanted and liked girls and I and married, but from time to time I crave man on man sex, I enjoy sucking cock.
I can go years and not have these feeling, though when younger the feelings were stronger, as I was hornier.
Nothing is more pleasing that pleasuring my wife with oral and intercourse, I crave that as well.
I have no doubts I am bisexual, it all just depends on which was the pendulum is swinging, mine is more hetro of late.
Not been with another guy for 4 years but I do now have the craves for oral with a man.
Being spoiled 20 years ago with have a guy just like me for truly exploring our sexual fantasies.
For me sex with other guys is like a game of sports, no real emotions just lust.
Where with all the women I have been with any length of time emotions were/are a huge part of the sex.
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