First purchase of feminine clothes

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Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

In the big city, I would be OK with shopping with you. However, I live in a semi-rural area, and as a long-time resident, I run into people I know while out. I wore a Speedo while swimming, and a former coworker tried to act cool, but when I saw her ata luncheon several days later, she wasn't the man I had known for 10 + years.

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In the big city, I would be OK with shopping with you. However, I live in a semi-rural area, and as a long-time resident, I run into people I know while out. I wore a Speedo while swimming, and a former coworker tried to act cool, but when I saw her ata luncheon several days later, she wasn't the man I had known for 10 + years.

They wouldn’t know it was for you. Could always say it was for me. Still sad. It’s just fabric. If it makes you happy why not? Stuffing that down isn’t good for you.

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They wouldn’t know it was for you. Could always say it was for me. Still sad. It’s just fabric. If it makes you happy why not? Stuffing that down isn’t good for you.

I am somewhat of a thrill seeker. I would much rather fly in a powered ultralight, go indoor skydiving, scuba dive, etc., than put on some panties or other lingerie. However, those flying, skydiving, etc., are expensive. The cheapest thrill is wearing a Speedo and swimming. I usually go right after the largely female (and largely my age) water aerobics class is finishing up. Also, making things awkward with someone I've known for years doesn't make me happy.

I went shopping with a girl I know and she helped me pick out some dresses and lingerie

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Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

For a lot of men they feel ashamed because society tells them they can't express any femininity ever or they're not a man. Masculinity for them is very rigid and very fragile at the same time and they enforce this relentlessly. I think more men need to be brave and just say fuck it and doll up for a weekend. Any man whose heart ever fluttered looking at satin panties or a taffeta skirt should get to wear them.

I agree with you, I'd have no problem if my boyfriend wanted to dress up. It would actually be fun! I wouldn't think he was any less of a man either. It would just prove he was his own man not just some drone following what society expects of him.

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For a lot of men they feel ashamed because society tells them they can't express any femininity ever or they're not a man. Masculinity for them is very rigid and very fragile at the same time and they enforce this relentlessly. I think more men need to be brave and just say fuck it and doll up for a weekend. Any man whose heart ever fluttered looking at satin panties or a taffeta skirt should get to wear them.

I agree with you, I'd have no problem if my boyfriend wanted to dress up. It would actually be fun! I wouldn't think he was any less of a man either. It would just prove he was his own man not just some drone following what society expects of him.

Perfect girlfriend to take me shopping and play in panties, hose and feminine lingerie

I ordered a bra and pants set from Amazon with a gift card. I was in high school and my parents left me at home for a couple of weeks while they were on a big trip. My big brother had moved out already but he frequently came by the house. I was so nervous that he would come by and open the package, though he normally wouldn't do such a thing. My other fear was it getting accidentally delivered to a neighbor. I was so relieved when it was delivered and I was the only one home. I later threw them away for fear I couldn't keep them hidden. My first in-store purchase was a skirt, a top, and a purse from a thrift store. My heart just about pounded through my chest. I still get very nervous.