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Men who like men: Top, bottom, or switch?

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i am mainly a bottom but will top sometimes

Do you enjoy both or just top when you have to?
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Do you enjoy both or just top when you have to?

yeah i like both just prefer bottom most times
Versatile. One or the other is just too limiting. There's fun to be had with both.

Quote by Wil_TX
I'm versatile, but if I am going to bottom for a guy he best be hung and know how to swing that big bat. There is nothing worse that a guy with a big cock that thinks all he needs to do is shove that cock into me to rock my world.

Both need to know what they're doing. A bottom that just lies there isn't any fun either.
Quote by cordite74

A bottom that just lies there isn't any fun either.

What I hate the most! Twice the work for half the pleasure.
I love being a bottom and having the man shove is cock deep inside of me. I also love the reverse cowgirl position and being on top and controlling the entire fuck
Definitely a bottom. Love to be used by as many as possible!
Quote by easilyused
Definitely a bottom. Love to be used by as many as possible!

Mmmm! My kind of guy.
I most deffinately am a bottom, love to get down and suck his cock and for me the best sex is being fucked deep and hard by a big cock
I prefer to be bottom just love the feeling of being entered always wanted to be taken bareback but not worth the risk so that stays fantasy have topped a couple of times but preference is always to be bottom
Quote by dpw

What I hate the most! Twice the work for half the pleasure.


It is what I hate most about gay for pay porn. Yes it is nice to see a normally str8 guy willing to go gay, but then many of them are really not into it especially when they choose to go bottom. For one thing they are soft during the whole experience and you can tell many of them are acting or at least attempting to act.

The initial thrill of seeing him bottom just doesn't last for me as a viewer.

It is even worse in real life to have it happen. I have only had one bad experience in which I was the top and the guy just wasn't really into being a bottom. He just lay there.

I kept thinking to myself if you can't act like you enjoy it at least act like your in pain....I would get a brief rush of thinking my dick was big enough to hurt a little bit.
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It is even worse in real life to have it happen. I have only had one bad experience in which I was the top and the guy just wasn't really into being a bottom. He just lay there.

I kept thinking to myself if you can't act like you enjoy it at least act like your in pain....I would get a brief rush of thinking my dick was big enough to hurt a little bit.

Yeah I've had more than one unfortunately but one was really the worst, he was silent as well. I stopped and asked aren't you enjoying this? He said yes it's great, I said well I'm fucking not, got dressed and left.
Love to switch when we are both gurls, otherwise I will do as my lover wants
So far, I have only bottomed. Started at an early age with self anal exploration, and eventually, as I got older, toys...dildos and vibrators. My favorite is the dildo with suction cup as I LOVE to ride it. However, NOTHING feels quite as good as a real cock inside me. Drives me crazy! But, I don't like just being fucked..rather, I like to be made love to. So, when asked, my response is, bottom all the way. That being said, however, I would not be opposed to at least trying to top...after all...I'd want to please my partner as much as he does me.
I prefer bottom, but I'd like to top again some day. My first time was a switch, but since then that partner has lost interest in bottoming and I'd like to try it again. In the meantime, I can't complain. I love nothing more than a hard cock buried to the hilt in my ass.
I prefer top, but in the moment can find bottom is equally enjoyable.
bottom always.im still a virgin when it comes to fucking
usually a bottom
Ahh, back in the day when I swing that way; I was versatile, but most of the time I was a top.
i like giving and receiving. it is only fair
Definitely bottom. My dick could fall off for all I care.
I switch with a slight top preference. It depends on my mood some days I just want to dominate someone other days I want someone to fuck my ass like there's no tomorrow.
Quote by MNPervert
I switch with a slight top preference. It depends on my mood some days I just want to dominate someone other days I want someone to fuck my ass like there's no tomorrow.


I love this answer.
Quote by dpw
I'm a top.
I had painful experiences when I bottomed as a young guy. I wish it had been better as I think being versatile is the best. I think I missed out on a lot of fun.
If you go gentle on me I'd go gentle on you
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If you go gentle on me I'd go gentle on you

My plane lands in an hour, lol.
Of course I'd be gentle, until you give the go ahead to go harder! I'd want you to enjoy it, so you'd want to do it again.....and again and again, lol.
I just want someone to listen to me, not force their cock in! Take it easy to start and when I'm ready, fuck me like there's no tomorrow! Not too much to ask.
Don't have a lot of experience. I've only done anal with another guy twice and both times I was the top. Looking nervously forward to trying out bottom someday.
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Don't have a lot of experience. I've only done anal with another guy twice and both times I was the top. Looking nervously forward to trying out bottom someday.

You'll be nervously looking backwards if it's doggy style, lol.
Quote by dpw

You'll be nervously looking backwards if it's doggy style, lol.


Always enjoyed the fantasy of my first time being with a couple so the I was orally pleasing one while his or her partner was (gently, patiently, slowly) deflowering my virgin ass. Head down, mouth full, too busy to be looking back.