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Bottom.
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Men who like men: Top, bottom, or switch?
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During sex, what position do you like?
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bottom
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i think im a bottom
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i think im a bottom
You'll have to try both to be sure, lol.
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Lingo question: Are "switch" and "versatile" interchangeable?
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Lingo question: Are "switch" and "versatile" interchangeable?
Versatile is the most common term but you can qualify it with top or bottom. A versatile top can bottom but prefer to top and vice vera. A switch tends to have no preference and flipper is top and bottom in one session, a flip fuck.
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Versatile is the most common term but you can qualify it with top or bottom. A versatile top can bottom but prefer to top and vice vera. A switch tends to have no preference and flipper is top and bottom in one session, a flip fuck.
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I was a top only for a long time. Then I got a wonderful massage and after an hour of foreplay of him fingering me and teasing me I couldn't wait to get fucked. However, I didn't meet another guy to take the time to properly get me to that point for quite awhile.
But then I met my current boyfriend and I love having his rock hard cock press up against my prostrate as he fucks me. He knows just how and where to probe me. I shoot so hard when he's inside me I sometimes splatter my own face.
But then I met my current boyfriend and I love having his rock hard cock press up against my prostrate as he fucks me. He knows just how and where to probe me. I shoot so hard when he's inside me I sometimes splatter my own face.
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It really does depend on the person. If the guy is smooth and thin I fantasize about topping. If masculine I'd want to bottom!
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Since I was completely straight for 40+ years, never having a thought about a man, not even wanking with guys, I suppose I consider myself a top. I have bottomed some, but never really enjoy it. What's the secret, guys? I would to feel the euphora I am told happens when you get fucked.
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I suppose I consider myself a top. I have bottomed some, but never really enjoy it. What's the secret, guys? I would to feel the euphora I am told happens when you get fucked.
I'm the same. I think it must be down to the skill of the top and the mindset of the bottom. I'm not a submissive person by nature, so I don't find it easy to "give myself".Yes, I get the feelings of being stretched and full but neither are pleasant for me. It's always been, hurry up or get take thing out of me, lol.
Also, no guy has ever hit my prostate, so I've yet to experience that.
I am determined to try again. It's just a question of finding the right partner so that I can relax and go with the flow.
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I am definitely a top.
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Oh, Baritone Boy and Derek - I'd love to be the one to change your minds...
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Oh, Baritone Boy and Derek - I'd love to be the one to change your minds...
The offer is accepted!
I'd love to be shouting "fuck me harder". Just never happened. Now I think there's a psychological block.
Anyway you didn't answer the question.
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Sorry, I got excited and forgot to stay on topic.
I'm a top, generally, but it depends who I'm with, and bottoming can be awesome with the right person.
dpw- if I might be so bold as to suggest it (since I'm so far away ;) you're able to reach your prostate yourself, you know.
(Not intended as 'go fuck yourself.' I just mean perhaps you'd like the sensation more if it weren't so unfamiliar.)
I'm a top, generally, but it depends who I'm with, and bottoming can be awesome with the right person.
dpw- if I might be so bold as to suggest it (since I'm so far away ;) you're able to reach your prostate yourself, you know.
(Not intended as 'go fuck yourself.' I just mean perhaps you'd like the sensation more if it weren't so unfamiliar.)
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I'm with you JamiLin. Plus, why does it have to be about dominant or submissive every time? I'm bossy as hell when I bottom and (I think) pretty polite when I top. It's about fucking, yeah, but primarily about the relationship. I know not everyone will agree with this, but I think if you don't respect somebody you shouldn't be doing it with him, and the way gay men so often want to categorize everybody is unfair to a lot of us. If we want to bottom, so be it. If we want to top, that's cool, too, but I don't think I should have to choose one or the other for my identity.
Whew. Sorry. Got up on a little soap box there. I really don' t know how to do forums so forgive me if I'm screwing it all up. I'm just supposed to answer, I guess.
Whew. Sorry. Got up on a little soap box there. I really don' t know how to do forums so forgive me if I'm screwing it all up. I'm just supposed to answer, I guess.
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dpw- if I might be so bold as to suggest it (since I'm so far away ;) you're able to reach your prostate yourself, you know.
Yeah, yeah, yeah!
Let me think about this. My finger or your cock?
Where's the airline sales desk?
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Oh, Baritone Boy and Derek - I'd love to be the one to change your minds...
Hey, KeeganMitchellFinn, I am up for it. Change my mind.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah!
Let me think about this. My finger or your cock?
Where's the airline sales desk?
Get a ticket to Chicago. You can stay with me and we will have KeeganMitchellFinn over to teach us.
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I've got my teaching materials and I'm already working it - I mean working on my lesson plans.
You know they call me the Professor and it's not because I wear tweed.
You know they call me the Professor and it's not because I wear tweed.
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Bottom.