“I can see your absence everywhere, in everything. I could look at a rose, but instead of seeing the rose, I see you not holding it. I look at the moonlight, and there you are, not in it.”
—Timothy Schaffert
The Swan Gondola
“minestra riscaldata”
(noun) This wonderful Italian idiom and untranslatable word redefines the meaning of comfort. It is generally used to describe a phase of a romantic relationship, the post break-up reunion. Minestra riscaldata is an indication of something that has gone wrong once, but you return knowing it won’t be as “good” or “exciting” as the initiation. For example, returning with an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend for a second or third time. The literal definition, warmed up soup, depicts this sentiment well. Heating up your soup will not taste better than when it was first served. It is still delicious, and you find comfort in it, so you choose nothing new to try. Are you catching our drift here? Getting back together with your former flame will never taste as delicious as the first time, you return for its comfort; it is what you know. It is hard to ignore a food analogy that begins in the heart!
literally: re-heated/warmed up soup
“I think pain and unhappiness are distinct and different things and it is possible to go on suffering pain without being really unhappy. Pain is something external, something that comes from without, an ephemeral accident like a physical ailment, like our present separation, like the death of a brother. Unhappiness on the other hand, although produced by pain is something within yourself which grows, develops and envelops you if you allow it to do so and do not watch out. Pain, no one can avoid but unhappiness you can overcome if you consider something worthwhile enough to live for. Perhaps I am becoming pedantic again so I shall leave it.”
— Faiz Ahmed Faiz
in a letter to his wife Alys, from his prison-cell