So a very messy party a Bondi Beach last weekend, meant there were plenty of hangovers around the next morning believe me. One positive result however, was that i met a girl that I really liked, in fact i'd go as far as too say i fancy the absolute arse off her. I think im a reasonable looking guy, but I almost feel like im punching above my weight shes that pretty. we just sorta hit it off and really got on well, had such a laugh and seemed to have alot in common, not to mention she is an absolute stunner. We stayed up all night and talked for hours, about all sorts of trivia crap, even though we had just met that night, i felt like i really got to know her. She gave me her number and insisted she wanted to meet up again really soon, i got her facebook as well. I couldnt believe how nice she was, she acted just as into me as was into her, it looked so promising.
Im sure most people have been there? You know, when you meet somebody THAT good, you cant take your mind off them, even when you havent know them long, something just clicks, and you really want it to go futher.
So i was texting and messaging this girl on facebook, she said she would come up and see me as soon as she gets time, she seemed so keen and into me, i really wanted it to happen. This was only 4 or 5 days ago, but since then she hasnt replied to any messages. I havent bombarded her with messages or anything, ive only sent a couple, but like i say, i always wonder what the hell is going on when people never txt back. I sent her an inbox on facebook that she didnt reply to, but i know shes been on facebook cos ive seen her status update (im not stalking her or anything...! 0.o), but not a sausage on my phone or my fb inbox.
I dont get what the hell goes through girl's heads half the time, its like one moment shes keen as mustard, then next she not interested at all. I know ive sometimes had a weakness in the past, when i really like somebody, of getting way too keen and ahead of myself too soon, so im trying to stand off and let her get in touch with me, but it feels like waiting for a train thats never going to come. Maybe i need to go into a corner and have a word with myself or something, but i stop thinkin bout her its driving me crazy, and ive only just met the effing girl! I think theres something wrong with me lol...
I know shes planning on going to mexico soon, im not sure how long for, but it just sounds like a general holiday for a few weeks or a month or so, and she has just been through the process of moving house, and she works alot, so i would have just put it down to being busy, because its only been afew days.........If it wasnt for the fact that shes been replying to others on facebook and not to me.....(and she uses her phone for facebook so i know shes got my txts). I dont think she spends very much time on facebook, but shes definatley been on a some point.
Womens minds absolutely baffle me, so like, what should i do? I think ive probably sent her enough messages already, i sent her 1 txt and 1 facebook msg, and she has replied to niether, but like i say, i know she got them. I cant send anymore, that would getting into "pushy" territory. So what, have i just been too keen or got a bit ahead of myself and possibly scared her off? Has she lost interest? Does it sound like she's just busy? Or is she still interested, but just doesnt have anything good to say at the minute. Or is she even just trying to keep me keen by not txting? Like a reverse psychology thing? I know you girls do funny things.....
I dont know what the answer is, but opinions are welcome, and it kinda feels good to get this off my chest. I dont have many people to talk to about this kinda thing...
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