I just realized I don't really have a strong sex drive (although I do work out consistently). Well it never really went anywhere to begin with. I haven't done anything, ever. Such as actively flirt, ask someone out, hold hands, kiss, ect. Its not that I don't want to do any of those things, its just that I see no point to it (maybe because I've never experienced them).
I really just don't have the motivation to go out there and at least try. I got to this conclusion after deciding if I should go to prom or not. If I went I'd have to get a date, go to an after party, and get laid (or at least thats the tradition). At first I thought it wasn't such a bad idea since I could easily get it done, but then I thought to myself, I don't really have to do this. Its not just the whole "prom" thing, its the spending time/effort to get laid or whatever.
I do get horny, have urges, ect, but I don't think they have been able to "overwhelm" me enough to get me out there. I'm also 18, one of the most horny years according to older friends.
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Anyone ever feel like this?
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Internet Sensation
If you don't feel like it, don't.
Though there aint anything wrong to go out and meet life.
Have fun and dance. You might just meet someone who awakens urges for her/him in particular.
Enjoy life while you're young and walk your own path.
With or without sexual relations to others.
(Stupid tradition if you ask me,)
Though there aint anything wrong to go out and meet life.
Have fun and dance. You might just meet someone who awakens urges for her/him in particular.
Enjoy life while you're young and walk your own path.
With or without sexual relations to others.
(Stupid tradition if you ask me,)
Quote by roccotool
Then if you don't want to spend the time and effort to get laid, and you have a low sex drive, what's the problem?
I was asking if anyone else felt this way.
Also, its not just sex. Its the whole dating/flirting/girlfriend fiasco. In my head I think it would be nice, but I just don't feel I want it enough; not sure how to explain it. I think my libido is pretty high, I masturbate most days, I get horny, just like every other guy my age, but I just take it any further.
Quote by cowman809
2009 has been one of my best years in terms of success and having fun.
Congrats, man! Gotta love that, then. And as for me, I have never felt that way. The only time I have been aloof about chicks was when I was severely depressed, and at that time I had absolutely no libido at all... no interest in anything.
Quote by chefkathleen
Sounds like you're just lazy. Don't sweat it. When you get tired of Rosey you'll seek out the real thing.
Only time I've ever felt that was was when I was ill or mourning. Otherwise, healthy(active) libido.
I could be lazy, but that doesn't explain the other part. I don't see the point in relationships since they are (to me) just good friends with sex, I can't see them in any different way and don't think they are worth pursuing.
Internet Sensation
I had a boyfriend who used to look at life like that.
Why should I get a woman when I'm having fun anyways?
He didn't involved with anyone in more than a friendly way untill two years before we met.
He got crushed and thought; just one girl, maybe it'll be better with next one.
Next one came and during the period I met him he was involved with that girl and got crushed.
Riiight... I should sound encouraging...
Well then he met me and learnt a thing or two.
Atleast what he tells me, that he was right all along, women are no good.
Though he got hooked on the drug women can become once you've gotten some of our "tender" care.
Why should I get a woman when I'm having fun anyways?
He didn't involved with anyone in more than a friendly way untill two years before we met.
He got crushed and thought; just one girl, maybe it'll be better with next one.
Next one came and during the period I met him he was involved with that girl and got crushed.
Riiight... I should sound encouraging...
Well then he met me and learnt a thing or two.
Atleast what he tells me, that he was right all along, women are no good.
Though he got hooked on the drug women can become once you've gotten some of our "tender" care.