My wife and I have been married for 23 years (actually married the girl next door). We have a very good relationship. We, 4 years ago, were recreational users of coke (not anymore). 4 years ago, it took control of her and she progressed into smoking it...crack. I was clueless at that time. She began sexual favors for her dealer claiming she was coerced. She said he pawed at her for months and finally said if you want this to continue then this is how it needs to be. the first time she sucked his cock, he even took a pic of her on his phone to hold over her head in case she wanted to come to me. This went on for 2 months. On valentines day, she hit rock bottom and called me to get her and went on to tell me her tale of woe. She was generally sorry etc. She is clean of that now. It has been 4 years now and I still have trouble with it. We did counseling etc. I have tried and never was successful in confronting this man as he would never answer his door etc (went there many times with a baseball bat. In fact the last time I went looking for him was the day my mother died). This man is about 6'4" with dreadlocks down to his ass so I am told. Anyway, two questions.... 1. I still have a need to confront him but not sure if I should or shouldnt. 2. How long will I dwell on the cheating part of this. Will it ever go away or at least not be thought of everyday or two? I sometimes feel I need to confront him (without a bat) just for some closure. We don't speak of that period of time anymore but it is always an elephant in the room. Any thoughts?
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Cheating........(i am sure this has been covered but here it goes.....)
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My wife and I have been married for 23 years (actually married the girl next door). We have a very good relationship. We, 4 years ago, were recreational users of coke (not anymore). 4 years ago, it took control of her and she progressed into smoking it...crack. I was clueless at that time. She began sexual favors for her dealer claiming she was coerced. She said he pawed at her for months and finally said if you want this to continue then this is how it needs to be. the first time she sucked his cock, he even took a pic of her on his phone to hold over her head in case she wanted to come to me. This went on for 2 months. On valentines day, she hit rock bottom and called me to get her and went on to tell me her tale of woe. She was generally sorry etc. She is clean of that now. It has been 4 years now and I still have trouble with it. We did counseling etc. I have tried and never was successful in confronting this man as he would never answer his door etc (went there many times with a baseball bat. In fact the last time I went looking for him was the day my mother died). This man is about 6'4" with dreadlocks down to his ass so I am told. Anyway, two questions.... 1. I still have a need to confront him but not sure if I should or shouldnt. 2. How long will I dwell on the cheating part of this. Will it ever go away or at least not be thought of everyday or two? I sometimes feel I need to confront him (without a bat) just for some closure. We don't speak of that period of time anymore but it is always an elephant in the room. Any thoughts?
Dude, let that shit go.
Or you might find yourself in a cell with a bunch of dreadlock sporting thugs, where you may well be appreciated in ways you do not wish to be.
You both went there willingly. She just happened to go a bit further. If you love her, let it lay.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
i know love conquers all but not in this scenario as you seek counseling meaning that is worst and yet no changes so this is the time to give what she longing for let her go to which cock she wanted to dig it because at the end she will realize her fault when their lust been lost or subside for that matter
Cheating is something very hard to go threw. It hurts your heart and soul and you wonder if they or are they doing it still? Chances are they are not but your mind is still rolling on the "if's" and the "but's". If you can see the love in her eyes every-time you go to bed with your wife. And you can truly feel the love she is trying to show. Then just put it behind you. Maybe burn the picture? Or a picture of that dumb ass dealer? She made a mistake sweetheart. But we are all human.. We have flaws and learn and build ourselves into better people. I hope all gets better xoxo.- Bella.
I thank you all for your comments. Love can conquer. Bella...I wish I had the pic or even know what he looks like...I have tried many times, in rage, to confront. I have put (I hope) the rage asside. I sometimes wish and imagine a confrontation, I just want to look him in the eye and tell him my thoughts, I am thinking it may help my healing process- maybe it is selfish- I dont know. I love her and she loves me to which I am sure of it. I just want my mind to exhale. I will not go to jail over this. My daughter, 12 then and 16 now, has helped me much. However, she gave me a short story to read from Stephen Spielberg "Dolans Caddilac". It is a story of revenge after 7 years. I hope to God I fell better by then. Thank you all.