I say sure. Why limit yourself? There are as many kinds of love as there are lovers.
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Do people really fall in love on lush?
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Quote by daddysweetheart
Yes but falls out or stop loving even faster.
Time on here goes by so fast.
Hard for survival..
Especially if one partner does not forgive.
Among other things.
Now this is penetrating......I agree,,,it can happen very quickly on line, but without the confirming stuff of everyday life together, it takes longer to deepen. On top of it, here, people are here to find others whether in the fantasies of reading or in other on line people, so the chances of having your relationship interrupted are greater. That's my take after 9 years of being in these places.
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Now this is penetrating......I agree,,,it can happen very quickly on line, but without the confirming stuff of everyday life together, it takes longer to deepen. On top of it, here, people are here to find others whether in the fantasies of reading or in other on line people, so the chances of having your relationship interrupted are greater. That's my take after 9 years of being in these places.
Omg.. 9 years is an eternity in these places.
Thank you..xxx
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Most definitely
Chuckanator
Hmmm. I did. But if it doesn't become real flesh and blood it won't remain healthy. We have exchanged videos a pics and skyped for hours. We are so damn compatible and have such a deep friendship, that it seems risky for the relationship to consummate it in person. There is thirty years age difference. But yes. People do fall in love on Lush
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https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/undercovers-detective-chapter-7.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/seduction/undercovers-detective-chapter-6.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/undercovers-detective-chapter-5.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/underdovers-detective-chapter-4.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/seduction/undercovers-detective-chapter-3.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/undercovers-detective-chapter-two.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/undercovers-detective.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/undercovers-detective-chapter-7.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/seduction/undercovers-detective-chapter-6.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/undercovers-detective-chapter-5.aspx
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https://www.lushstories.com/stories/seduction/undercovers-detective-chapter-3.aspx
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One can fall in love anywhere at anytime with anyone. It just depends on their desires and needs, and their perception of the same. Whether it's wise to fall in love with someone, here or elsewhere, well, that's the eternal dilemma. Sometimes one gets lucky when they roll those particular dice.
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One can fall in love anywhere at anytime with anyone. It just depends on their desires and needs, and their perception of the same. Whether it's wise to fall in love with someone, here or elsewhere, well, that's the eternal dilemma. Sometimes one gets lucky when they roll those particular dice.
I agree with you..
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Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
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Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
I need details.
Mazztastic
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Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
So happy for you guys!!
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people can fall in love anywhere.
it's common to form an connection to someone over the internet, because your behind a computer screen. not that you're necessarily hiding, but more so shielded. it's easier to be yourself and share personal experiences and desires when all you have to do is click a button to escape. face to face, you are more likely to hold back for fear of judgement, humiliation, and rejection.
while i'm sure we all agree words can move mountains, we must also admit that the physical aspects of a relationship are of equal if not more importance. not only sex, but other physical intimacies as well: holding hands, cuddling, meaningful glances, even companionable silence.
so while a monitor can provide you with a sense of security allowing you to reveal your secrets in remote safety, it also acts as a barrier. you may be a perfect match in a chat window, but you cannot make a complete connection without experiencing the physical aspects.
And sometimes, we just let ourselves believe we're falling in love over the internet. Because that person understands you, they agree with you. But how often do you find yourself trying to appease them, even altering your wants, your preferences so that it relates to theirs? Giving them what they give you. It's not any less of a connection. It's a source of human comfort, which every single one of needs. To be able to come home from a shit day and only be a few clicks away from someone that can you make smile.
but like i said, people can fall in anywhere.
it's common to form an connection to someone over the internet, because your behind a computer screen. not that you're necessarily hiding, but more so shielded. it's easier to be yourself and share personal experiences and desires when all you have to do is click a button to escape. face to face, you are more likely to hold back for fear of judgement, humiliation, and rejection.
while i'm sure we all agree words can move mountains, we must also admit that the physical aspects of a relationship are of equal if not more importance. not only sex, but other physical intimacies as well: holding hands, cuddling, meaningful glances, even companionable silence.
so while a monitor can provide you with a sense of security allowing you to reveal your secrets in remote safety, it also acts as a barrier. you may be a perfect match in a chat window, but you cannot make a complete connection without experiencing the physical aspects.
And sometimes, we just let ourselves believe we're falling in love over the internet. Because that person understands you, they agree with you. But how often do you find yourself trying to appease them, even altering your wants, your preferences so that it relates to theirs? Giving them what they give you. It's not any less of a connection. It's a source of human comfort, which every single one of needs. To be able to come home from a shit day and only be a few clicks away from someone that can you make smile.
but like i said, people can fall in anywhere.
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All you have to do is truly be yourself. I fell in lush love and so many people warned it would be different when we met in person. I give them credit, it was different, it was a million times better. Our secret weapon is that we were exactly what our bios said we were. No surprises, we never misrepresented ourselves. I say that you only live once so be careful but don't miss out on something great because of fear. If it works, you win, if it doesn't...... life goes very on. I am hopelessly in love with Billy and I never saw it coming. I am thankful for every minute we get together.
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I agree with one of the other posts, this is now a social norm to meet people online. I sometimes believe that it is easier to get to know someone online than face to face. Think about it, you can be so much more honest online than face to face because you don't have to worry about them judging you or looking at you with pity or no interest. As for actually falling in love, I myself believe, that you will need to meet eventually because no matter how honest you are online there are still little quirks that may be annoying in real life. But of course that's not to say I don't hope for the best.
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Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
I feel very humble right now, and so glad you guys got it together.
I hope it all works out
Matriarch
Quote by SydneySider
Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
I feel very humble right now, and so glad you guys got it together.
I hope it all works out
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Quote by SydneySider
Absolutely. After nearly 2 years, we met recently and it was the most amazing two weeks of my life.
I think you two are an excellent example of Love found on Lush, the way you have gone about it.
You found each other here, you don't use Lush as a part of what defines your relationship. I think that's an important factor.
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Love is A deep subject. First off there are different kinds of love. You may love your Car or your Dog etc. but it's not the same as you would love your spouse or children. At least not normally. as for the whole love /lust thing. I can only speak for myself.Through out my life I have thought I was in love many times. Alas no, when I was young I thought I was in love several times when I was dating. When we broke up it didn't hurt as much as I expected. That's when I found out the difference between love & lust, By the time I met my X wife I thought I could tell the difference. We were married 23 years & had 2 children. We stuck it out way too long. When she divorced me the battle was about Money & custody of my daughter. We argued about who never really loved who, but I knew in my mind it was me, And once again I had fallen A victim of lust. I knew it between child 1 & 2 I should have ended it then. However for the sake of my son I decided to stick it out.Of course that's how I got child #2. Don't get me wrong I loved my children. However my marriage became like A prison sentence. Perhaps that's an over statement but you get the point. So in conclusion I came to the realization that I have never really been in love. ( I can't speak for my X) As for it happening here at Lush, I suppose it's as good A place as any. I would advise you to just be sure it really is love. However there is no real way of being sure. Life's A crap shoot so just roll the dice & see what happens. What have you got to loose? It's better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all. 
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People meet people here. People fall in love sometimes. End of subject, lol.
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It would be interesting if they did. If you meet someone and fall in love with him or her good for you
Have lots of fun
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Why couldn't they?
Weaver of Words
My opinion on this is that it surely can and has happened. I personally know several couples that have made it work. some started geographically close, others at some distances. being a world wide site makes it more difficult than a site that matches you up locally. for it to be truly love and a real relationship, at some point, you do actually have to meet. I also know people from here who have fallen in love, met, and it didn't work out. again, that happens.
However, I think there are far too many people on here that "fall in love at first sight" and then two weeks later, break up, then a week after that, are madly in love with yet another person. and they repeat the pattern over and over again. this is NOT love, perhaps not even lust. it is people in love with the idea of love. or people so lonely and perhaps out of touch with reality, that they attach themselves to the first person that shows them any attention. I know love can happen fast, but someone who joins Lush and a week later has over 100 friends, and is already "owned" by someone, or is already "in a relationship" is not someone with both feet on the ground.
I have seen it so many times, where people like that get hurt over and over because they pour their hearts and souls into these fantasies. there is nothing wrong with fantasy, as long as you remain aware of the fact they are just that - fantasies and that in the vast majority of cases, that is all they will ever be. anyway, that's my take on it.
However, I think there are far too many people on here that "fall in love at first sight" and then two weeks later, break up, then a week after that, are madly in love with yet another person. and they repeat the pattern over and over again. this is NOT love, perhaps not even lust. it is people in love with the idea of love. or people so lonely and perhaps out of touch with reality, that they attach themselves to the first person that shows them any attention. I know love can happen fast, but someone who joins Lush and a week later has over 100 friends, and is already "owned" by someone, or is already "in a relationship" is not someone with both feet on the ground.
I have seen it so many times, where people like that get hurt over and over because they pour their hearts and souls into these fantasies. there is nothing wrong with fantasy, as long as you remain aware of the fact they are just that - fantasies and that in the vast majority of cases, that is all they will ever be. anyway, that's my take on it.