No it excites me to know details of the people he has sexual desires for.
I find that in most cases women have been reluctant to discuss their past sexual relationships yet they often write the most explicit stories on Lush. Outside of Lush there have been a few that have told me the most incredible details about their sex lives albeit will not provide a single detail. I find that those that both are willing to talk dirty and provide past sexual experiences arouse me in the most delightful way.