Active Ink Slinger
yeah sadly
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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
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Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Yeah...but it was puppy love. Actually, I'm sure that incident has scarred me for life because since then I've been extremely guarded and non-trusting.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
Active Ink Slinger
The first person I ever feel in love with was a person that I couldn't have emotionally. It was my best friend at the time and we would often have sleepovers together and they would always end in sex. However, I became very attached and wanted more out of our relationship than just friends with benefits. I wanted her to recognize us as together, but because she was "straight" or was only looking for a quick fuck...she rejected me. Whenever she had a boyfriend, she was off limits to me physically and she acted like sex between us was just weird, but as soon has she didn't have a guy anymore, she would be right back with her pussy on my face. What can I say...I tortured myself for nearly a year by thinking that I could get her to love me, but I soon learned that you can't always get what you want.
Active Ink Slinger
There always is someone you can't have.You have to feel the pain before you can appreciate what you have
Yes I have. We fell in "Love", first four months were bliss. The last two were off and on. We tried remaining friends. I obsessed and we made each other angry. It became toxic and unhealthy for me. I destroyed our friendship and left that site. I deleted all of her email addresses and pics. I erased all of her emails.
In an analogy, I guess you could say it was like when hand writing a letter and you don't know how to put your thoughts down on paper, so you crumple it up and throw it away only to pick out of the trash and try completing the letter. Finally I threw the damn thing in the fire. No more headache.
I WILL NEVER EVER FALL IN LOVE WITH AN ONLINE PERSON, THAT I CAN'T MEET AGAIN, IT FUCKING SUCKED
Id
In an analogy, I guess you could say it was like when hand writing a letter and you don't know how to put your thoughts down on paper, so you crumple it up and throw it away only to pick out of the trash and try completing the letter. Finally I threw the damn thing in the fire. No more headache.
I WILL NEVER EVER FALL IN LOVE WITH AN ONLINE PERSON, THAT I CAN'T MEET AGAIN, IT FUCKING SUCKED
Id
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, got the t-shirt there.
Wrote the conclusion of first novel to stop topping myself, sold up and moved 200 miles away, got on with life without them.
Wrote the conclusion of first novel to stop topping myself, sold up and moved 200 miles away, got on with life without them.
Rookie Scribe
I did once and we had a great time together. It hurt us both to end it, because I'm married. She knew I was married from the start. We have remained friends, and talk sometimes. I believe it hurt her more.
Active Ink Slinger
sadly, yes. The person doesn't know and I hope to god they don't find out. The person is already in a relationship but everyone can see it isn't going anywhere. I wished he'd open his damned eyes and see the truth laid out in front of him.
Me too and it still hurts like hell and can't get over it ...
Active Ink Slinger
yep twice
Weaver of Words
yep, one I could with very easily
Active Ink Slinger
Somebody who i 'couldn't' have, no i wouldn't say so, but somebody who I wanted but who didnt feel the same, yes, probably more than once. Maybe not in love, but definately smitten to the point where i cant get that person out of my head. I dont think love counts as love, unless its returned, love is mutual, otherwise its just compassion, lust, obession etc...
Active Ink Slinger
Sadly yes.
All I can do is listen when he talks to me.God yes, she was married, and it's about as pleasant as being dragged naked over broken glass. She knew, she was kind and supportive, but it did no good. She wasn't the kind to cheat and that was just as well, because the whole thing about her was her nobility. Very much an emotional/spiritual/intellectual aristorcrat.
Active Ink Slinger
yeah a few times sadly
Story Verifier
I thought I had several times, but then I met the girl a buddy of mine brought back with him from Hungary when he was discharged from the Army. She and I seemingly had more in common than she did with my buddy and she was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever met. If he hadn't been a lifelong friend (since we were both in Kindergarten), I would have walked a mile on broken glass to be with her. But alas, the buddy code won the battle. All those earlier times were just lust or infatuation.
Active Ink Slinger
I believe I have a few times... Might even be in love with someone right now that I will never be able to have....