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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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Quote by SweetElle
I've thought it was love a few times... but it wasn't. Intense like, lust...whatever...it happens.

Except for once almost two years ago...and I cried myself to sleep every night for a year when our six year relationship was finally over. I will always love him, but it wasn't meant to be. There will never be another him or us.


yeah.... got into something similar... was a her not him silly

made me the asshole i'm today
Of course. It's a horrible feeling
Unfortunately yes I did. I was head over heals in love with a married woman. We had an affair for over a year and I was lost in her. Then her head couldn't handle it, and she broke it off. I was lost for a long time.
yes a few times and it suck, worst feeling in the world
Oh, absolutely. Right now, as a matter of fact.
yes..... intense mind numbing pain
I ALWAYS fall for the wrong person!!!!
Hmmm...I can't say that I've fallen 'in love' but I have most certainly fallen 'in lust' with several men over the years that I couldn't have for one reason or another. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between the two and I learned THAT lesson the hard way as well.
Yes, was horrible. Broke my heart. Said i was going of men forever, 2/3 months later fell in love again with someone new...still together now.
Yes and it hurt like hell
Yes, but she did not know it. She was 10 years older than me at the time. It was a terrible feeling to know I couldn't have her.
Yes - never knew if it was reciprocated but it began with me responding to things she said and did so I have my suspicions - we were both married with kids and careers - not seeing how we could avoid screwing up that many lives at a single stroke neither of us took it any further -- saw her again almost 2 years later and was literally knocked off my feet by how fantastic she looked - any sign at all from her that day and things would have taken a completely different direction
I've never fallen in love with someone I can’t have, but I have fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have because it wasn't right. I’m not sure if it’s the same thing. We didn't work out so I guess I shouldn't have fallen for him in the first place, but damn he still has my heart.
Fallen in love, dunno but had an intense attraction to, yes. One of my ex's girlfriends, she was gorgeous inside and out, we had a lot in common, music, films, sense of humour. I thought about trying it on with her but my ex finally caught on and gave me the ultimatum. I made the wrong choice...
Yep, I'm 32 and it's only ever happened to me once.... about a year ago, and I'm still trying to move on! No longer in contact with the guy but it still causes many sleepless night and tears. All I know is heartache can go f*ck itself and maybe time is the only way to heal? Lol, who knows...
yes i have..... and i was left feeling lonely... i will find someone though
Yes I have. And have been in love with more than one person at a time. The heart is what it is.
Yes, and it hurts like hell. You do and say what you can to make sense of it, to justify it, only to know its not going to be, that you can't have someone who doesn't belong to you. How do you get through it? Someone once told me, if you love him, fight for him. I think at times we just need to accept that there is a reason for everything.
Lust and infatuation, yes. A few times.

Real true love? Hmm... debatable.
yes. she owns my heart
Very much so. I thought what was a summertime fling turned into something much deeper.
Quote by LusciousLola
I have and it's a recipe for heartache.
Hasn't everyone at one time or another, part of life and growing as a person
No real advice in here, guess Ill go with my plan of turning all the pain into a burning ball of rage, that should.keep me warm at night.
In college, my TA. I think it was more infatuation though, because I never had that heartbreak that you guys are talking about. Although I could tell he liked me back. It was a lot of fun, until the semester ended. I've only come really really close to loving one person and I definitely will not go there.
Yes. But as I learned more about them they were not the kind of person I thought they were and the feelings quickly went away.
You seem sweet, mind if I lick you to make sure?
Well apparently length of relationship and activities conducted during are the qualifiers. Ones feelings dont count a whit if the woman decides they dont. How convienant.