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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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Yes!

One of my cousins and I'm still in love with her 60 years later. It took me about 10 years to get over her.

Every girl or woman I've ever been interested in getting serious about reminded me of her. My wife of 43 years too. I've never told her that but my commitment to her was absolute. I've never cheated and I'll never leave her.
I am always a gentleman.
oh yes, many times....what did I do? rationalized the whole thing....lol
Yes I have.

What did I do? Dealt with it & moved on. We're very good friends to this day.
Well to begin, I'm pretty sure I haven't been in love with anyone before.

But it seems like pretty much every time I start to like someone they are already in a relationship, aren't interested in me or they are just my friend.
Not really.

I don't fall it love easily.

However, I've had massive crushes and infatuations with someone I cannot have, especially the kind where I'd have no chance as they are already deeply attached to someone else.

I hope I never do. That'd be one of the worst experiences.
I liked someone I couldn't have and was infatuated for a bit.
I don't fall in love easily... Takes a connection... I have been enamored with someone that I know will never work out. Distance and situations are too far apart.. And it is hard.. Because you can't quit thinking about that person at times... But love is deeper... A deeper connection... And the few I have truly been in love with, have been in reach. Unfortunately the amount of work I am committed to do, keeps those love situations from blooming... :/
Yes, Johnny Depp . . .
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
yeah i did,turns out she loved my best friend
Yes. We had sex 3 times one night 3 years ago
No. Because I believe it is a futile exercise. They don't want you so why want them? Part of what makes a person attractive to me is the mutual attraction. Save yourself the pain and find someone who wants you too.
Yes. Once. Our timing was never right, but those feelings never quite go away now do they? Still love him to this day but it will never ever happen. Breaks my heart. Wow, I sound pathetic! Sorry all!
Yes, unfortunately - was a lesson learned.
i have and never told her how i felt and ill regret not telling for the rest my life she past away. so if u love any one tell them
oh yes more than once. just happened recently...
Haven't we all? Ok most of us!
yes really tears at me i cant show my love for him
No. Not love. Good friendships though
Yes..I saw the most beautiful man I've ever seen in my life.
A few years ago. I never reacted so strongly in my life.
Was in a ltr at the time. He took my breath away..
Very intimidating to talk to because of his position where he works.
Now I know he has a ltr gf..I feel like if he talked or cared to me I would just start crying..
I dream about getting to know him better a few times a year. Not daydream but dream at night...
(Like real dreams even if I' m not thinking of him.)
When I do see him I feel hope and my my soul is lifted.
He just became not a crush or obsession but a beacon of hope for me.
He's still the most stunning most beautiful man I've ever seen famous or not.
A beacon of hope in hard times.
Even though I only know his name and not much else, I still feel I love him.
It's my younger self acting out maybe..
I believe it almost happened with me on lush. I don't know how it happened or why it happened. It was definitely not an obsession or infatuation that much I know. Unfortunately I was jolted by her and brought back to mother earth. lol.
Oh yeah, I certainly have. And, if I can figure out how to get it done I'll submit the story. If not, I HOPE one of my friends can figure out how to do it for me; I think many of you will enjoy it.


And then there is the fine young fox who works at a local fast food restaurant. I would LOVE to bent that little beauty over and shove my tongue so far up her cute little butt I could lick her tonsils FROM THE INSIDE! (Something I haven't done often ...however there are some lovelies who bring out that desire in me!
I think we all have fallen for someone we can't have. It can happen and yes it has happened to me twice and it does hurt like hell..
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I think we all have fallen for someone we can't have. It can happen and yes it has happened to me twice and it does hurt like hell..[/quot

I know that feeling too, all too well.
I'm just fallen in damn deep love. While falling in love, love doesn't think if you can have that person or not. Nothing in our hands. It just unknowingly happened. I will have or not. I can say only one thing. I will never forget her.
yes I have, and still am.
well, I have. we have a relationship but she keeps calling it on and off.. her family doesn't like a for their daughter, see.
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well, I have. we have a relationship but she keeps calling it on and off.. her family doesn't like a for their daughter, see.


For me many years ago it was a religious difference combined with an inflated sense of status on the part of her parents. The last time was just an old fool who let his defenses down. My PTSD therapist would have been proud of her work. It took many years for me to be able to do that again. Fantasy has normally been safe for me and in rL there is no way. Trust from me in RL is VERY tough to win Been burned WAY TOO MANY TIMES ! The last was over 20 years ago.iuMZ2Dxtb4ZIc0zw
Isn't that what happens in cyberspace?