Yes I have, I wouldn't recommend it, as it is harder than hell to deal with. A song, the wind in the trees, sunlight glistening off the lake, brings back so many sweet memories. They are now cherished ones, that I hold dear to my heart, as life goes on, and so do I.
Oh yes!! And whilst we were together It was so good. We eventually came to our senses and parted, but, the memories remain, vividly
Yes. I had a beautiful teacher that I had the most obsessive crush of in highschool. To this day, I can picture myself being disciplined by her... ;)
Yep, and as it is fairly recent, it still hurts.
Ok, so it might not have ever worked or lasted, but that doesn't take the pain away. I guess the trick is how we deal with it, as it is likely we shall be in contact from time to time.
Would I give it another go? Hell, yes!!!
Oh yes still seeing him sometimes Hurts but is addicted to him. Do not know how the end it
Oh yes. Its the worst feeling. To know u love someone u can't have. U know what's worse, loving that person and watching them get married!
yes i have and tbh the only reason we broke up is because she got scared of the too much too soon scenario thing if you get me?? she wanted to live her life before totally committing to sum which i totally understood... were still in contact daily.... and she says that she wants to marry e one day as im her perfect partner..... we cant get over eachother properly... we have tried being with other ppl but it just doesnt work so were just kinda stuck in the middle of nowhere now. plus her family have pretty much said they will abandon her if we get back together because of how upset she was when we broke up and they think that i had hurt her which is totally untrue but they wnt believe her when she tells them th truth they say shes just deluded.... wat do i do.....??????? if any1 cn help please it would be greatly appreciated..
thankyou x
Yes and to this day, we cannot be together even though we both know we love each other.
No - Never I wouldn't do that to myself, you can't help who you fall in Love with but you can keep your distance to stop it happening :-) I suppose theres still time though we will see in the next 10 years!
Yes.
Led to frustration and lots of wasted time on my part.
Lost many an opportunity for great friendships.
"The Gods that smiled when you were born
are laughing now."
yes, and i regret it a lot now. im over it but it still makes me feel sad.
I sure have. Apparently the difference in our religions was just to great for her to handle. I wouldn't convert and she kept pushing, so I had to leave.
I've fallen in love twice with guys that I can't have. It rips your heart apart. A lot of time crying. I need to chose my men a little better
Yes I loved someone that didnt love me only wanted to use me... it took another love to get rid of him from my heart.
Yes, it was a bipolar experience, the only way to explain it. It was a roller coaster ride of the most wonderful feelings and the most horrible feelings I have ever experienced in my life. She felt the same way about me, although it all was unspoken, but we both knew. We stayed friends for a while but eventually I think she decided it was easier to cut ties... she just started to push me away like I had betrayed her, but I know she drove me away because she just couldn't stand the pain. I understand and forgive her but it haunts me to this day... I always wonder what could have been.
Yes but I was more angry and upset for not letting my feelings be known to that person.
I only had myself to blame.
Yes. I have and it sucks I love her can tell her that but no sex ever she can be with a bunch of douche bag losers and not be with a guy like me that will treat her right and love her like she deserves.
Mm-yes I have and I still love her.
Yes & and I think part of me always will love him.
Yes I have. hasn't everyone at one time or another?
Feels good to know I am not alone, and will always love her
I've posted earlier on this thread but it remains one of my favourite Lush topics.....
Only TWO people said no...... (And I wonder about that......)
Just because one has an abiding and practicing interest in sex and those implications doesn't mean that one isn't soulful and romantic and capable of being hurt and remembering a previous love......
I kind of like the honesty of all the Lushies who have responded openly to this thread......
For a perverted bunch of depraved fucks, we ARE kind of lovely..........*
xx SF
*(If you're offended then I didn't mean You........ Obviously.....)
Yes and I still am now, it hurts every day and I don't think my feelings for her will ever change they just seem to get stronger, i will probably either win all or loose all soon as I cant do this for much longer and will have to do something about it.