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The curfew

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Have you ever imposed one on a signif other?

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WellMadeMale
Constant Gardener
On those occasions when I've had a girlfriend I shared a residence with, I don't recall any of them ever imposing a curfew on me, when I went out with the guys. I always seemed to use roughly 'an hour after closing time' as a general rule of thumb. I know I did test the water once when I drug my ass in about an hour after sun up (after a phone call around 3am saying I'd be home soon). Only needed to do that one time! heheh

Likewise I've never told a woman that I wanted her home at a certain time. I have asked to be called (or paged - back in those days) if they thought they might be spending the night somewhere, and I've (almost) always extended a similar courtesy call myself.

What about you..? Incidentally, all of you with a spouse may reply to the poll also.

(please, no anecdotes about curfews you imposed on your children or those imposed on you by your parents)
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poizenivy
Active Ink Slinger
Before I was married, I have never imposed a curfew as that is not my place. However, it is just respectful to let your significant other know what your plans are and give you a call if you aren't coming home or if you are going to be later than you said you would be. I am a worrier by nature so it is in everybody's best interest if my SO lets me know if he wasn't going to be home. Now I am married to a man that cannot do anything without me and so when I go out with friends he wants to know when I will be back, where are we going, etc. He even goes so far as to give a safe driving lecture to my friends!!! If he thought he could get away with it he would probably give me a curfew, but he knows better.
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Lurker
I agree, i wouldnt either impose a curfew but it is courtesy to say when you expect to be home, and ring if you're going to be late or stay at a friends. I worry alot too and it would be nice to know they think of you enough to let you know. I would do the same
TheDevilsWeakness
Active Ink Slinger
No. If you're an adult and you're out somewhere, you can take care of yourself. I don't need you to check in. You're a big boy now, I'm not your mother.
If its 4am and your going to sleep it off at a buddies house... do me a favor and DON'T wake me up with a drunk and stupid phone call at 4am to tell me your staying there - call me when you sober up.
4am phone calls scare me shitless. I think someone's been in a car accident and/or died. My adrenaline starts pumping and I will go through the phone and throttle your drunken ass if you tell me, "Not gonna make it home. I'm drunk. I'm gonna crash at Joe's place." If you're not home by 2am, I figure this is the scenario anyways.

I did have an exboyfriend that would call me twenty times a night. It got to the point I stopped going out with friends because I spent the whole time on the phone.
It started again when I went to get groceries or run errands. Everytime I turned around my phone would ring. I finally quit answering because it was annoying as hell.
The last time, I went out to meet friends for drinks after work. I shut off my phone. Its been over 6 months and he still thinks I'm out having drinks.
charmbrights
Active Ink Slinger
Yes - but it was more to do with alcohol consumption than sexual worries.
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