Thoughts on girls asking a guy out

10 Mar 2013

Hey Metalcase..How did it go? did you ask?

10 Mar 2013

Quote by mentalcase

I really want to go out with his guy. But he does not seem to be taking the hint and I have never asked a guy out before.

Is a girl asking a guy out pathetic? No, not at all. Go for it....
will the guy get scared? He'll either get scared, or love the forwardness.
Should I just wait until he gets a clue? No

Thoughts and advice please.

Has it happened to you? Yes, I asked him out. He said yes.

†Jinxy Approved†

10 Mar 2013

i see nothing wrong with it. if the sexes truly are equal then why should it be an issue right?

10 Mar 2013

Been asked 3 seperate times by 3 differnt women, and each time caught me completely off guard. Didn't mind it at all, so go for it.

11 Mar 2013

Just ask the guy out. In my life most of my dates came from the girl asking me out. It doesn't matter who is doing the asking/inviting.

11 Mar 2013

Quote by mentalcase

I really want to go out with his guy. But he does not seem to be taking the hint and I have never asked a guy out before.

Is a girl asking a guy out pathetic?
will the guy get scared?
Should I just wait until he gets a clue?

Thoughts and advice please.

Has it happened to you?

Why wait for something you want? Go get him!

22 Mar 2013

By all means, ask him out. I think most men like a woman that knows what she wants and is confident enough to go after it.

28 Mar 2013

Thanks for all the advice and Support everyone. I slipped him my number and i'm hoping he'll call. I don't see him too often so and I chickened out a few times (Hence why it took so long) Fingers crossed!!!

28 Mar 2013

For get slipping him a phone number, He may as goofy as I am , & has lost your number by now

Perhaps he had the same stunt pulled on him as I had,40 yrs ago & I still find it funny..
Just ask & Ill share it with you..

Had you asked & he was interested HE probably would have called or at least gone out of his way to locate you..
Should you see him again strike up a conversation. "did you loser that #, interested In ;Going,Seeing, doing ( what ever you want to try)

28 Mar 2013

I don't see why not. If you don't ask, you don't get. And we guys can be a tad bit dense sometimes!

30 Mar 2013

This is 2013, not the Middle Ages. If you think it could be something good for your life, go for it! If you don't ask, you'll never know. There's nothing wrong with a girl knowing what she wants and asking for it. smile

6 May 2013

I finally asked him properly if he wanted to go out. He said no. oh well.

6 May 2013

I realize some people are terribly shy and timid. Others have curious notions about social manners or have fears of rejection. BUT to the bold, Life opens many closed doors and asking another person out seems a possibility that can change your life. Go for it. Always. The most that can happen is they say No and it's a very small word.

6 May 2013

Why on Earth not? If you like someone you like them. It doesn't matter who you are or what sex. Never pass up a chance at happiness.

7 May 2013

That sys it. Why the heck not?