when is it time to change?

14 Dec 2010

me and my wife have been together for 11yrs, and things have started to sour, we dont speak that much, we try to make a go at things but the love does not seem to be there anymore? what should i / we do?

14 Dec 2010

Don't give up too quickly.

Do something special for her. The more you give, the more you'll love.

16 Dec 2010

Look at the positives you both have and build on them. Ignore or, don't worry too much, about the one or two things that are missing. No relationship is perfect. Work on the good things and some of the things missing may re-appear in the future.

1 Mar 2011

Have you tried asking her this question? Does she know you are feeling like this? Whether you work it out or end it communication can solve your problem.

2 Mar 2011

Couples' therapy, rekindle love life, communication, try everything you can to work things out and don't give up too quickly. However, if things do not improve divorce, especially one that is civil and mutual, is sometimes the best option. I found that when my parents divorced that got along better than when they were married.

2 Mar 2011

Quote by PoorLittleGirl
...I found that when my parents divorced that got along better than when they were married.

Agreed! My parents took YEARS to get divorced. They finally did it when my siblings and I were teenagers and we were all so relieved.

6 Mar 2011

I strongly disagree with divorce, but even more strongly disagree with staying in a marriage that lacks love and satisfaction.

Have you discussed your feeling with your spouse. The other party may thinking everything is normal and you are completely happy.

I am not a Therapist, even though I sometimes think about being one, but this I know without communication, you are doomed to fail. Whether you stay together or go your separate ways.

The communication may only be obtained with the guidence of a counselor.

24 Mar 2011

try it to find time to each other go out of town for another honeymoon, by that time you can talk everything

mrgay