Don't do it, if you're only doing it, because you see it as a mandatory part of having sex. Guys sense it, if you don't really want to and you are not comfy with it, at least, I do. It's an absolute turn-off for me.
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i All I can really do is reiterate - enthusiasm, communication and keep at it!
Eye contact and don't neglect yourself. Ask him, "Mind if I play with myself while I suck your cock?" That might be a turn off for some guys, but a total turn on for me, knowing she's pleasuring herself while pleasuring me.
"Being male is a matter of birth.
Being a man is a matter of age.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice."
stuff Men have said about why they like how i give head...
eye contact: i was trained to always hold eye contact with a Man when his Cock is in my mouth. Some Men ignore me, but i think they all like having the option.
tongue: i KNOW Men like how i use my tongue. its always active, even when im gagging from his Cock down my throat. Men especially like the bottom of the head being licked, and love it when they are deep down my throat and i lick their balls.
i love it. i just do. i have always loved pleasing Men with my mouth, and i guess that comes through.
Just some quick ideas...
Soft, slow, wet, and deep. No hands, must cum in your mouth.
Three words: saliva, saliva, SALIVA
My take is there are two parts. One is the tease where the penis is licked, stroked, swirled, held deep in the throat and worked over with the tongue, balls caressed & squeeze or sucked on, ect... ect... Then there is going for the O. Usually for me thats a steady in & out rythm, with the tongue pushing or sliding around on the erection. Most of the men I've seen sucked off or who I've sucked off prefer this for getting to unloading.
There are exceptions. The male in a threesome I was in back in December liked it rough & was not much concerned with steady repetition. Also young guys reach orgasm with a lot less technical stimulation. I remember one ejaculating just from a girl holding his cock and flicking her tongue on the underside of the head. Another shot his wad while I was licking the base of the shaft & a lady was sucking his balls. Two facials for the price of one that time.
I dont think you can count quick trigger prematures. When I was 19 I squirted as soon as a lady touched her lips to my tip. Some guys may enjoy that, but for me it was as much disapointment as satisfaction.
Moan really loudly like it's the greatest thing you've ever tasted. Also use your tongue as much as possible. He'll love it, trust me.
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