Crossdressing while she's away...

27 Mar 2015

So my significant other will be gone a few days next week, and i wanted to spend some "me" time exploring my feminine side. Embarassed

I wanted to hear advice/ideas from any of you who like to do the same. She doesn't know, and I dont get to do this very often, so I want to make it as special and exciting as I can. Shopping is half the fun laughing6

so I'd prefer to get my own things rather than wear hers. Happy to share experiences with you. Looking forward to evenings filled with satin and lace!!!

--James (or Cynthia love7

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6 Jun 2020

I love crossdressing, I have a wife who encourages me to dress so I guess I am the lucky one. Do try it as it a lovely feeling and try to discuss with your other half.

15 Jun 2020

I, too, like to dress while my wife is away. If my wife knew that I liked to dress in dresses,panties, and bra she would freak out.
The best time I had while cross dressing was when I put on some of her shorts and a shirt and went to the home improvement store.
I probably didn't look like I was wearing woman's clothes but I knew I was and was hard the whole time I was there.
If I could, I would dress feminine every night after getting home from work.
Wearing panties to work can be an erotic experience too.

2 May 2025

I am in a similar situation as I have to cross-dress in secret I purchase most of my things on line and either collect from the store or get delivered to postage box. I have a collection of lingerie, hosiery and women's clothes and heels. When my wife is away I take the opportunity to cross dress, I always start with having a nice bath then pamper my skin with body lotion and slip into a nice lingerie set, if you want to go further than just wearing female clothes, take time to learn how to apply makeup, do your nails and style your hair/wig. The effort is certainly worthwhile and when my Wife is away for a longer period this is what I do. I love to sit in front of the mirror in my lingerie complete with my breast forms and transform my face into a more feminine appearance then continue my dressing by putting on a garter belt and stockings along with a nice skirt and blouse or a dress along with heels. Then sometimes I just do things about the house, watch a movie and have a wine or I may decide to go for a drive stopping in quiet areas and go for a stroll. I find it so exhilarating going for a stroll the wonderful feeling of the breeze blowing up your skirt and your heels clicking on the pavement is wonderful. If this is not possible at home you can always make an excuse and stay in a hotel for a night and do the same thing. I enjoy wearing panties and tights on a daily basis under my work clothes and fully dressing whenever i can.

14 Aug 2025

I know several men that do this. One guy actually has lingerie hidden in his garage. I currently have a invite to a man desperately wanting to become trans. He's shown me pics of him in a dress. But he's too afraid to make the booty call with me.

1 Jan 2026

I lke to borrow my wifes panties while shes away but thats as far as it goes.

2 Jan 2026

I’m sorry you have to do it in secret. As long as my man wanted me I would encourage him. It’s just fabric. And it hurts no one.

21 Jul 2026

I'd encourage you to bring the subject up. There should be no secrets in relationships and you're never going to be able to stop crossdressing and it is quite likely she will find out anyway eventually. You DO NOT want to treat this as a dirty little secret that she finds and feels deceived by. If you love each other you will be honest with each other. It's quite possible you will have some level of acceptance which may free you to explore more. If not at least it is out in the open and not something she discovers you hid from her. Secrets destroy relationships. Honesty rarely does.