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Ben Wa balls shouldn't really be "felt" (like they are not the size of golf balls) .... the key is to try to hold them "in" by using your vaginal wall muscles.
Ben Wa balls won't get "lost" inside you, as they should be heavy enough to slide out when you release your muscles.
If you laugh, they should pop out.
Gravity is an amazing thing! lol
Be careful not to drop them in the toilet .... they have been known to crack the porcelain of the bowl and that's a costly repair.
Playing with a vibrator against your clit (and outside your pussy entrance) will bounce the Ben Wa balls around in your pussy making for an interesting orgasm!
Enjoy!!
I would also suggest you get yourself a nice pearl G-string thong to wear when you have them inside you!
The double sensations are wicked!
Personal Assistant is correct about not losing them!
I would also suggest you learn to do different types of Kegel exercises with them inside.
It strengthens and coordinates different muscles for outstanding control!
Kisses!
Steph
Thank you for the advice both of you. I will look into some Kegel excerises as think that might be half my problem - no control so need to strengthen up.
I like the sound of a pearl G String too - will look into that. And thanks for the tip about the loo although I tend to take them out when I go.
I think one of the best things about them is going out in public with them in. If you are walking in a mall lets say and you move just so, you can feel them "click" against each other. Also it is motivation to make sure they don't fall out in public. That would be quite embarrassing.
Ben was are the one toy my wife has used and enjoyed
For years. She has worn them out to dinner alone with me
And with friends. Out while walking the mall, driving long
Distances. Even once in a bounce house.
As Shawna says when they click. Omg...
When we ar out and that happens I can always
Tell by her reaction. Lol
From a guys pov, usually great sex once we get
Alone somewhere...
I just wonder how they would feel in a man
My model friend loved the ones I bough her she now has a number of sets heavy and light, loves them when travellng to shoots her husband keeps trying to hit all the bumps and "cats eyes" the reflectors in the middle of the roads in the UK just to keep the balls jiggling. I also love putting them in for her and then photographing them coming out later really great turn on.UoyMyTd2bg6MjLT7
Awesome for control issues and if you don't your right before, your partners will confirm your right after.
and they appear to disappear far up if you know what I mean. Is this normal or am I doing something wrong. I brought the heavy kind if that makes a different. 
