How to tell the women you are having sex with you have a foot fetish?

29 Aug 2014

Hello people.
as you can probably guess by the title, yes I have a foot fetish, and I have learnt that this is normal and is the "most popular fetish" but as a single man and when I occasionally have sex with a women who isnt my partner/girlfriend (whatever you want to call it) I feel shy about telling them as I havent publicly admitted to people that I have a foot fetish. So do I just tell them as it is normal and they might like it or have a fetish of their own or do I leave that for a girlfriend/partner?

24 May 2026

Ease into a conversation regarding fetishes. If she gets grossed out, end it there. If she’s interested, she may have her own and share them with you.

I have a foot fetish. I love to see the soles of a woman’s feet. During intercourse I sometimes ask my husband to kiss and caress my feet. He always obliges as he has a foot fetish too.

3 Oct 2026

Personally in my experience, In all my past relationships I introduced my fetish gradually into the rest of our sex life. Paying attention to all of her body not just her feet. A bit at a time. It can take several months or longer. However, it happens gradually, at the same time you're getting to know each other.

Next thing I know. She's wearing open toes shoes, getting pedicures and all that because she knows what I like. That's how you avoid the mistake of coming across as a pervert.

Pay attention to your girl/for the human being that she is, and treat her well so you gain her trust. You can't just go for the feet right off. It takes some diplomacy and patience