Hey what's up Lush, I'm a 21 year old college male and am currently in a 5 month relationship with a 22 year old college female, though we're in the same grade because she started school a year late when she was younger because her family moved around some, who I've fallen in love with. We didn't start having sex until about a month into our relationship and the sex has been fantastic. We've become more open in our sexual relationship and both have been with a very low number of partners, 4 for her and 3 for me. We started out with boring missionary sex, not even any oral our first time. She was uncomfortable with giving me oral from the start and felt weird the first time I went down on her but she eventually began giving me oral and sucking my balls on a regular basis and absolutely loves when I go down on her. We've really been into trying different positions and though cowgirl and missionary are our favorites, we've also come to really enjoy doggy, which neither of us had ever done before, as well as me bending her over counters, our bed, tables, etc. and giving it to her from behind. She also heard from a friend that guys enjoyed receiving oral while she had pop rocks in her mouth, which has been rather fun. We've also tried titty fucking, with me on top of her and thrusting while she holds her breast together and every time I thrust towards her she sucks on my tips a little bit and on a few occasions she's laid on her back with her head hanging off the bed or gotten on her knees with me standing in front of her and gently let me face fuck her. She's also started to be able to deep throat me and it feels wonderful. I also discovered she had a vibrator that a girl friend of hers took her to a sex store to buy which I've used on her vagina a few times while we 69 and while I was on top of her titty fucking and she's really enjoyed giving me head while having her vagina penetrated. There are though three things I've tried talking to her about with no luck. The first is cumming on her breast, face and in her mouth, the second is having a 3 sum with me, her and another guy and the third is trying anal with her. I understand that girls feel a little whorish if they aren't very sexually open-minded and they let a guy cum on her or in her mouth. She said she's never done it before and wishes she had since I've asked her a few times if I could. She even joked about me letting her give oral to a random guy and let him cum on her face and and in her mouth and at the time I obviously objected but as I've thought about it more the thought of her doing that with another guy has begun to turn me on a little bit and I talked to her and said if that's what it takes for her to try swallowing my cum and letting me cum on her face then I was willing to let her try it, as long as I was there and got to watch and the other guy knew our circumstances. I've also talked to her about trying out a threesome and told her I wouldn't mind her letting another male and myself get oral and fuck her vaginally at the same time and switching off if she ever wanted to try it, and I know she thought about saying yes immediately but after her pause she said she'd think about it and we haven't talked about it again except during sex when I use her vibrator on her while she gives me head during which I ask if the vibrator was another guy and she's been replying yes. I've also always wanted to try anal at least once and have tried my best at convincing her as well as reading articles about the right way to do anal the first few times because it will hurt. I've told her that we would definitely buy some anal lube at a sex store and possibly a small anal toy and that'd id research positions and would start out by slowly lubing her up and fingering her and progressively add fingers, up to 3 fingers as well as use our anal toy on her before I eventually inserted my penis in her once she felt comfortable with all of our other insertable anal objects. Every time she's thought about the idea and wants to say yes because our relationship has progressed mentally, spiritually, emotionally and sexually but she doesn't seem to be able to bring herself to say yes, though she did say a few days ago that she'd strongly consider it the next month and research it with me as well as ask a few girl friends of hers and go to a sex shop with me to ask questions there as well. My question is how do I turn all of these almost yeses and maybes into a definite yes? How do I convince her in a loving and intimate way to be okay with the idea and let me cum on her face and in her mouth and then her swallow my cum, having two guys penetrate her mouth and vagina at once and letting me giving her anal? Does anyone have any ideas about how to convince her and what to tell her to make her feel more comfortable about all three ideas?
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gosh , ive got my self in a muddle some advise would be welcome .
Hey what's up Lush, I'm a 21 year old college male and am currently in a 5 month relationship with a 22 year old college female, though we're in the same grade because she started school a year late when she was younger because her family moved around some, who I've fallen in love with.
We didn't start having sex until about a month into our relationship and the sex has been fantastic. We've become more open in our sexual relationship and both have been with a very low number of partners, 4 for her and 3 for me. We started out with boring missionary sex, not even any oral our first time. She was uncomfortable with giving me oral from the start and felt weird the first time I went down on her but she eventually began giving me oral and sucking my balls on a regular basis and absolutely loves when I go down on her.
We've really been into trying different positions and though cowgirl and missionary are our favorites, we've also come to really enjoy doggy, which neither of us had ever done before, as well as me bending her over counters, our bed, tables, etc. and giving it to her from behind. She also heard from a friend that guys enjoyed receiving oral while she had pop rocks in her mouth, which has been rather fun. We've also tried titty fucking, with me on top of her and thrusting while she holds her breast together and every time I thrust towards her she sucks on my tips a little bit and on a few occasions she's laid on her back with her head hanging off the bed or gotten on her knees with me standing in front of her and gently let me face fuck her. She's also started to be able to deep throat me and it feels wonderful. I also discovered she had a vibrator that a girl friend of hers took her to a sex store to buy which I've used on her vagina a few times while we 69 and while I was on top of her titty fucking and she's really enjoyed giving me head while having her vagina penetrated.
There are three things though I've tried talking to her about with no luck. The first is cumming on her breast, face and in her mouth, the second is having a 3 sum with me, her and another guy and the third is trying anal with her. I understand that girls feel a little whorish if they aren't very sexually open-minded and they let a guy cum on her or in her mouth. She said she's never done it before and wishes she had since I've asked her a few times if I could. She even joked about me letting her give oral to a random guy and let him cum on her face and and in her mouth and at the time I obviously objected but as I've thought about it more the thought of her doing that with another guy has begun to turn me on a little bit and I talked to her and said if that's what it takes for her to be willing swallowing my cum and letting me cum on her face then I was willing to let her try it, as long as I was there and got to watch and the other guy knew our circumstances, thought even if she did it with out the intentions of swallowing my cum and letting me give her a facial, I'd still think it was pretty damn sexy and kinky.
I've also talked to her about trying out a threesome and told her I wouldn't mind her letting another male and myself get oral and fuck her vaginally at the same time and switching off if she ever wanted to try it, and I know she thought about saying yes immediately but after her pause she said she'd think about it and we haven't talked about it again except during sex when I use her vibrator on her while she gives me head during which I ask if the vibrator was another guy and she's been replying yes.
I've also always wanted to try anal at least once and have tried my best at convincing her as well as reading articles about the right way to do anal the first few times because it will hurt. I've told her that we would definitely buy some anal lube at a sex store and possibly a small anal toy and that'd id research positions and would start out by slowly lubing her up and fingering her and progressively add fingers, up to 3 fingers as well as use our anal toy on her before I eventually inserted my penis in her once she felt comfortable with all of our other insertable anal objects. Every time she's thought about the idea and wants to say yes because our relationship has progressed mentally, spiritually, emotionally and sexually but she doesn't seem to be able to bring herself to say yes, though she did say a few days ago that she'd strongly consider it the next month and research it with me as well as ask a few girl friends of hers and go to a sex shop with me to ask questions there as well.
My question is how do I turn all of these almost yeses and maybes into a definite yes? How do I convince her in a loving and intimate way to be okay with the idea and let me cum on her face and in her mouth and then her swallow my cum, having two guys penetrate her mouth and vagina at once and letting me giving her anal? Does anyone have any ideas about how to convince her and what to tell her to make her feel more comfortable about all three ideas? Also, would it be too far for me trying to call her dirty names during sex like slut or whore or anything of that nature without asking her first and would me asking her to let the guy she gives head to if she decides to do that or the other guy in a threesome be a black guy? I don't know why but I find it hot when young white girls have sex and get fucked by black guys.
We didn't start having sex until about a month into our relationship and the sex has been fantastic. We've become more open in our sexual relationship and both have been with a very low number of partners, 4 for her and 3 for me. We started out with boring missionary sex, not even any oral our first time. She was uncomfortable with giving me oral from the start and felt weird the first time I went down on her but she eventually began giving me oral and sucking my balls on a regular basis and absolutely loves when I go down on her.
We've really been into trying different positions and though cowgirl and missionary are our favorites, we've also come to really enjoy doggy, which neither of us had ever done before, as well as me bending her over counters, our bed, tables, etc. and giving it to her from behind. She also heard from a friend that guys enjoyed receiving oral while she had pop rocks in her mouth, which has been rather fun. We've also tried titty fucking, with me on top of her and thrusting while she holds her breast together and every time I thrust towards her she sucks on my tips a little bit and on a few occasions she's laid on her back with her head hanging off the bed or gotten on her knees with me standing in front of her and gently let me face fuck her. She's also started to be able to deep throat me and it feels wonderful. I also discovered she had a vibrator that a girl friend of hers took her to a sex store to buy which I've used on her vagina a few times while we 69 and while I was on top of her titty fucking and she's really enjoyed giving me head while having her vagina penetrated.
There are three things though I've tried talking to her about with no luck. The first is cumming on her breast, face and in her mouth, the second is having a 3 sum with me, her and another guy and the third is trying anal with her. I understand that girls feel a little whorish if they aren't very sexually open-minded and they let a guy cum on her or in her mouth. She said she's never done it before and wishes she had since I've asked her a few times if I could. She even joked about me letting her give oral to a random guy and let him cum on her face and and in her mouth and at the time I obviously objected but as I've thought about it more the thought of her doing that with another guy has begun to turn me on a little bit and I talked to her and said if that's what it takes for her to be willing swallowing my cum and letting me cum on her face then I was willing to let her try it, as long as I was there and got to watch and the other guy knew our circumstances, thought even if she did it with out the intentions of swallowing my cum and letting me give her a facial, I'd still think it was pretty damn sexy and kinky.
I've also talked to her about trying out a threesome and told her I wouldn't mind her letting another male and myself get oral and fuck her vaginally at the same time and switching off if she ever wanted to try it, and I know she thought about saying yes immediately but after her pause she said she'd think about it and we haven't talked about it again except during sex when I use her vibrator on her while she gives me head during which I ask if the vibrator was another guy and she's been replying yes.
I've also always wanted to try anal at least once and have tried my best at convincing her as well as reading articles about the right way to do anal the first few times because it will hurt. I've told her that we would definitely buy some anal lube at a sex store and possibly a small anal toy and that'd id research positions and would start out by slowly lubing her up and fingering her and progressively add fingers, up to 3 fingers as well as use our anal toy on her before I eventually inserted my penis in her once she felt comfortable with all of our other insertable anal objects. Every time she's thought about the idea and wants to say yes because our relationship has progressed mentally, spiritually, emotionally and sexually but she doesn't seem to be able to bring herself to say yes, though she did say a few days ago that she'd strongly consider it the next month and research it with me as well as ask a few girl friends of hers and go to a sex shop with me to ask questions there as well.
My question is how do I turn all of these almost yeses and maybes into a definite yes? How do I convince her in a loving and intimate way to be okay with the idea and let me cum on her face and in her mouth and then her swallow my cum, having two guys penetrate her mouth and vagina at once and letting me giving her anal? Does anyone have any ideas about how to convince her and what to tell her to make her feel more comfortable about all three ideas? Also, would it be too far for me trying to call her dirty names during sex like slut or whore or anything of that nature without asking her first and would me asking her to let the guy she gives head to if she decides to do that or the other guy in a threesome be a black guy? I don't know why but I find it hot when young white girls have sex and get fucked by black guys.
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Hey curiousGuy,
see you found the enter button. My 1 piece of advice is....
it's a mind game
the hornier she is the better luck you'll have.
Be Patient
Use lube
let her back into you
try dogie style
Be gentle
see you found the enter button. My 1 piece of advice is....
it's a mind game
the hornier she is the better luck you'll have.
Be Patient
Use lube
let her back into you
try dogie style
Be gentle
sex is like a joke...it's only good if you get it
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Good advise sugarbabe.
Your second attempt is much better CuriousGuy.
I'll give my 2 cents, Be patient.
Your young, and so is your gal, I presume.
I didn't read your whole long article, but it sounds as if you want it all, and want it now.
Slow down a bit, and enjoy each new experience as it presents its self.
Then go CraZy!
Your second attempt is much better CuriousGuy.
I'll give my 2 cents, Be patient.
Your young, and so is your gal, I presume.
I didn't read your whole long article, but it sounds as if you want it all, and want it now.
Slow down a bit, and enjoy each new experience as it presents its self.
Then go CraZy!
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A little too much for me to answer. A 3some so far is only in my fantasies.
sex is like a joke...it's only good if you get it
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I have to admit I actually read most of it...and happened to notice you added a few things at the end of your second post...
I'm going to pass on giving advice here at the moment...I want to see what others have to say...
I bet Jeff could give you some good advice here...he'll be by I'm sure...
I'm going to pass on giving advice here at the moment...I want to see what others have to say...
I bet Jeff could give you some good advice here...he'll be by I'm sure...
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Good advise sugarbabe.
Your second attempt is much better CuriousGuy.
I'll give my 2 cents, Be patient.
Your young, and so is your gal, I presume.
I didn't read your whole long article, but it sounds as if you want it all, and want it now.
Slow down a bit, and enjoy each new experience as it presents its self.
Then go CraZy!
i read it all for ya scoot...and ur advice is dead on. its sort of like learning to ride a bike Curious, start slow and move up. after all, you dont get on a Harley 5 months after taking off your training wheels do ya? and remember, good sex is NOT what you seen in porn. good luck and have fun
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My advice....try not to post it in three different forums to begin with.
Second, see my reply in ask the guys.
Second, see my reply in ask the guys.
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Slow down, you may want all these things but you aren't going to get them if you push. She will become more comfortable with new ideas as her comfort with you in general grows. Take it one thing at a time as the situation arrises. I know, with my partner, we have candid conversations outside the bedroom about what interests us. Getting to that comfort level to even share that candidly has taken time, trust, and experience.
You have to relax though, don't push, don't bring it up often. You aren't going to wear her down into trying these things. Don't be a sex nag. Also keep in mind, some of the things you want to do are things some women go their whole lives without trying. I don't know about todays college girls, but when I was in college, many girls wouldn't do those things. I was considered a slut for my willingness to explore and try new things. No girl likes to be labeled a slut or whore. Doesn't matter how any dates she gets out of those titles.
bottom line, relax, take your time, enjoy the relationship you already have with her, and as time passes, communication becomes better, trust grows things will naturally evolve.
You have to relax though, don't push, don't bring it up often. You aren't going to wear her down into trying these things. Don't be a sex nag. Also keep in mind, some of the things you want to do are things some women go their whole lives without trying. I don't know about todays college girls, but when I was in college, many girls wouldn't do those things. I was considered a slut for my willingness to explore and try new things. No girl likes to be labeled a slut or whore. Doesn't matter how any dates she gets out of those titles.
bottom line, relax, take your time, enjoy the relationship you already have with her, and as time passes, communication becomes better, trust grows things will naturally evolve.
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I bet Jeff could give you some good advice here...he'll be by I'm sure...
And it's a good thing I didn't devote much thought to this. OP is a goner already.
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