You are finally growed up when you learn you can say NO without apology, and YES without guilt....
Wow! I was 'growed up' at age 2 then.
Beffer was 2? Funny, I always pictured her rising fully formed (with her twin sister beside her of course) from the sea, rather like some versions of the birth of Venus/Aphrodite.wZMVLVjFyaC2vJuC
I was a backward child - so Yes came before No.