A very well to do couple that we are acquainted with are hosting a couples hot tub party , with all proceeds going to charity . They do quite a lot of these adult type parties ( normally fancy dress) with proceeds going to various charities.
All the couples will be carefully selected by the hosts and are well known to them.
However my Mrs has reservations .
1) Body confidence. Like some women who had had kids she has stretch marks and a mummy tummy. She has to wear a baby doll of corset in the bedroom to give her the necessary confidence . So normally this is not a problem . Obviously here she will be covered up in a one piece swimsuit but is wary that some of the ladies may be wearing bikinis and may feel a little frumpy or a little left out .
2) She is also bothered that the swimwear may start coming off once the party gets going and the influence of alcohol starts taking effect. Whilst , perhaps I could see that happening I don't think it will end up like a swingers event .
I accept her reservations and have decided not to attend and will not place any pressure on her .
I am just wondering would you or your partner have similar reservations or would just go with the spirit and flow of things ?