I recently had surgery on my knee. and as a result have ended up with a nice scar. now while I dont really care one way or the other. people keep saying "chicks dig scars". but i have never heard or seen a girl get 'excited' over a scar before. so I wonder and thus ask all of you. do chicks really dig scars or is this just an old saying that has lost base ?
It's from the 2000 movie The Replacements. The quote I mean.
And it depends on the story behind it and what it looks like.
Scars and marks on a person's body are part of their history. It's a map of where their outer self has been in life.
If I like the person inside the body, then it naturally follows that I like their body too - because it is theirs.
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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Scars are pretty cool looking in general. The only thing that makes a scar disgusting/ a turn off is if the scar was from self-harm. Everyone has a history, but there's no reason to be turned on by the extreme hurt they had way back when.
Seeing the making of scars isn't sexy either...
A. "...it came from fighting off sharks in order to save someone's life."
or
B. "I fell off my bike when failed to see the curb."
OR
C. "I was shot while deactivating a nuclear bomb placed by international terrorists."
Which story should I tell?
As long as he doesnt have too many scars. But if its just in a few places, I'd be very tempted to kiss every one of em' .
I'm pretty neutral about scars. They don't really turn me on or off. Everyone has some kind of scar(s), including most guys I've been with. I just don't see it as that big of a big deal unless it was something extreme, maybe. But even then, if I was into a guy it's not like I'd dump him because of it. The story behind the scar makes no difference to me.
I am neutral regarding scars also. It doesnt turn me on or off if a person has scars. And how they got them isnt turn on either. Although I would prefer to hear they got the scar saving someones life then falling on their face because they were drunk or something like that.
unless it's a really obvious scar, like on the face, where you just can't look away, i'm pretty ambivilant one way or the other.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I have a scar on my thumb from trying to open a tin of corned beef. Hot?
I would hope they dig scars.....I have them on my shoulder and a few other places where you would have to really look close to find them...lol
I would say they are more interesting than sexually appealing. It tells a story, it's a part of you.
I have an 8in scar down my chest from open heart surgery my wife digs it cause it shows I'm still alive
I personally don't "dig" them...but I'm not bothered by them. I've got some and I could care less about them...If it doesn't bother you...don't let yourself care what other people think.
I got plenty of my own from various sporting or youthful bravery/stupidy. Im not bothered either way good conversation starter I suppose