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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?
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My boyfriend is 18 years younger than me. The age gap was a bit of a surprise when we first got together, but didn't matter at all after a while. And yes, he does have problems keeping up with me... ;)
I've been monogamous for a long time to my bride of many years. She is only 14 months older than me. I do ponder what ifs...I don't think age is an issue. There are pros/cons both ways. Younger women may have more energy, more natural lubrication, etc. Older women may know more of what they like, may be able to sustain orgasm longer, etc. The challenge is in finding the match.
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if it's just for sex...doesn't matter. for a true relationship, I'd like something between +/- 5 years either way. for my master, it doesn't matter as long as she has a very dominant side
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We are talking about a sexual affair or maybe only a one night stand aren't we?
As long as he can do for me what I need to be done for me I could care less. But if he was looking for a continuing relationship it would be different.
But how do I know about relationships since I have been in the same one for years.
As long as he can do for me what I need to be done for me I could care less. But if he was looking for a continuing relationship it would be different.
But how do I know about relationships since I have been in the same one for years.
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I don't think age matters too much . My first great love when I was 23 was 28 , but to me she looked 19 . The biggest gap was my 55 to a girl 33 yrs younger , no problem at all . I am now 76 and my wife is 52 , still no problem .
There could be a problem for a married couple having a great age gap , where one wants to go to crazy discos and the other has very staid taste , so each is bored by the things the other wants to do .
There could be a problem for a married couple having a great age gap , where one wants to go to crazy discos and the other has very staid taste , so each is bored by the things the other wants to do .
Hmmm....I'm pretty sure state and federal laws determine that .... Just kidding. I don't think I have a minimum span. I've met women much older and much younger that I absolutely love to hang out with. On the flip side, there are plenty of annoying bitches right around my age. So, to answer the original question...age is not really as much of a concern for me as willingness...pretty fond of any woman, young, old, or anywhere between that is willing to play.
As far as having a relationship goes, I've come to realize that they are all crazy and age really doesn't matter there either....lol
As far as having a relationship goes, I've come to realize that they are all crazy and age really doesn't matter there either....lol
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My girlfriend is 35 and I am 61. We've been together for over 13 years. Draw your own conclusions.
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I started dating a girl that was 26 right after I turned 18, my parents did not approve but It didn't bother me haha.
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Other than legally 18, does it matter? Sadly, it is beginning to matter more and more with our technology. 15 year olds right now, live IN the computer...I kid you not! The real world is underwhelming to them. It bores them.
Check out that commercial about the kid who has won a prize and the young lady near him is looking at him dreamily, so he types into his computer, "How to ask a girl out"....doesn't that say it all?
Check out that commercial about the kid who has won a prize and the young lady near him is looking at him dreamily, so he types into his computer, "How to ask a girl out"....doesn't that say it all?
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It's not the age, it's how he treats me. When I was 37, I had a wonderful lover who was 22. When I was 48, I had my best lover ever and he was 53.
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It's not the age, it's how he treats me. When I was 37, I had a wonderful lover who was 22. When I was 48, I had my best lover ever and he was 53.
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Sexual Partnership is ABOUT complicity, closeness, and fun....Not Age!!!
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When the parts stop working then the age difference is too great. Other than that, age to me is not a factor.
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There's a difference between sex and a relationship. If it's just sex age difference doesn't matter as long as both can keep up. I once fucked a lonely widower. He was 63. I was 19.
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No more than 8, unless love is a factor, then that number can change.
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As long as the two people involved don't care nobody else should. If the people fit together age is but a number!
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As long as its legal I don't see a problem.
Legal is always first and foremost... That being said... I really dont have a problem with any legal age if it is purely a sexual tryst... Now if it were a true relationship so to speak, then age does come into play... I would not date someone so young that we really from different eras...