I think the gap widens as you get older. A few years ago, I would have thought five years at most. Now I'm thirty eight, I would take ten years either side.
Well I am 48 and I have been with an 18, so 30 LOL
really widens the older you get eventually 30 and 50 will be ok for me it really depends. I'm 19 so 3 years younger at most but upwards I'd go up until around 40. Oldest woman I've been with was 33 and I've been with a 43 year old crossdresser before
Maybe with a bit of drug assistance, I could keep up with one 20 years younger...Would be my dream fantasy cum true for sure!!
I like them and I also like them old, my son says I can't have anyone his age, I just laughed
Why would age matter if you fancied them and they fancied you!
Older men is my thing....but I guess I wouldnt mind younger if they're mature
Anyone ages 20-40. Younger than my parents, that is. But I have flirted and talked to older... I guess there is no gap, haha
for sex i don't think the age matters as much as the spirit and health. i don't think i should have to say that no one below 19 or 20. for a relationship too large a gap puts people at different stages in their lives and can be a problem.
as they say Age is just a number and its what you feel that matters.
My mom is 15 years younger than my dad and they love each other very much.
i believe the thinking wavelength should match in a relationship and hence any body with any age can have relationship
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Bad girls say, "Don't Stop" As long as there is something there. There should be know thought about age. between adults.
OK in general? I don't think anyone should feel constrained by societal conventions about age where sex and love are concerned. If two people of greatly differing ages are attracted to each other, why should I or anyone else object? My tastes are for partners my age or younger, but I have a 25 yr. old girlfriend who prefers men in their 60's and 70's. To each his/her own.
I don't have an upper age limit. I do have a lower age limit.
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I think maturity and compatibility is more important than age (as you get older).
I agree with Cyndy. It's all about how the partner thinks. I'm 72 now but pretty much from about 21 until now it's been all about that. If she thinks like an adult, she is. I am not interested in children and think the death penalty should be reintroduced for child molesters.
From when she starts thinking as an adult until she can't any more. Age means very little. I did have a girlfriend twice my age when I was 25. I've been married to the same woman for 44 years and do not chase so younger has never happened. She's 6 years older than me and had 4 kids when I married her. They are all my kids.
I have had several woman work for me that were very young, 17 actually, that had to grow up very young. One was on her own at 15. Either one would qualify as an adult and I could have been with either. I never tried or indicated anything, they worked for me. I've also known women 30 to 70 that thought like children and them I would not be interested in.
Enjoying life and sometimes acting like a child is what being happy is about.
You don't HAVE to act like a child, but it helps sometimes.
Well the way i see it, age doesnt matter it's how the couple connects to each other. I will admit i was in a relationship with an older woman. At the time i was 21 and she was 53 and she looked like she was in her 30's. We taught each other quite a few things and enjoyed the time we had until she decided to move down to Florida to be closer to her family. But honestly age is just a number, as long as you two are having fun is all that should matter.
age doesnt matter it's how the couple connects
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for something just physical I am not sure it matters. I had an amazing week with a much older man but as far as a relationship we both knew it would never have worked.
for something just physical I am not sure it matters. I had an amazing week with a much older man but as far as a relationship we both knew it would never have worked.
Mostly I like strong, mature and intelligent woman my own age. I think they're increadibly sexy. I need someone who I would consider to be my equal.
Still, if any man middle aged man tells you that he wouldn't like a fling with a sexy twenty somethng he's probably a big fat liar.
I do think a lot has to do with the person's current age. There is a limit on being too young. That is why even this site has minimum age requirement. But to a 20 year old, old is X years above. To a 30 year old, old is X+y years above.
Personally, met a woman in a bar in Philly and turned out she was older than my mom. I thought that was super old, 10 years later, a woman could be much older that my mom and I had no problem with that age.
Age is irrelevant
Chemistry knows no age. I've had chemistry with lovers 20 yrs older and 20 yrs younger
Age is a number, not a feeling.
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