It seems to me that what you just said is contradicting. I think you have a lot to think about first.
That's part of the problem, I am thinking about it.
I think you can now see my dilemma. Although not truly understand it.
Where do I go from here.
Let's play the game of what if?
What if, you got what you wanted. What do you think would be the consequences of that?
What will you feel like after you have been with a man? happy or more confused.
What about the future of your marriage?
Thanks for taking time with me.
I think the consequence of getting what I wanted would, answer a question thats in my head and won't go away, and I would enjoy sex more and more sex.
When I had been with a man (see answer above) but it would be another sexual experience, I believe that we are better for learning from experience.
( As an apprentice in a factory, I met one of the men one evening, he showed me a sex video and then mad a grab for my cock, which was now hard, I let him and he gave me a wank. that was it. But I have often thought about it and did enjoy the experience)
My marriage is sound, my wife had a fling a while ago , I was away working and she encouraged 3 men, I think 2 only got as far as heavy petting but I believe she had sex with the third and I'm O.K. with that. So I wouldn't let this spoil my marriage.
Maybe you and she should discuss a three way together. Or perhaps start off with just her and a dildo.
Thanks guys,
I'm not sure that my wife would want someone else in our sex life, although she was happy to have sex with someone else but never shared it with me, I believe she would be O.K. if I had sex with a woman it would be O.K. but she wouldnt want to know the details. As for a man I not 100% sure.
I have used a dildo and other objects on myself and do enjoy the feeling. I would like a butt plug for xmas.
Probably my biggest fantasy is to give a blow job, but this will need that greater commitment.
I would say you should go to a gay sauna. There everything is very easy. Everyone is naked an you can look at some hot studs. The atmosphere is loaded with sex but you're not pushed to do something. If you feel like having fun it's very easy to get in contact and enjoy a nice cock :-)
Have fun!
Pas
Hey Pascal that sounds great, but never heard of them in this country, if you have them in Hamburg, then you are lucky.
Anyone in the U.K. heard of such a sauna ?
We have them here in the states. I have several friends that go to them.
Thanks for that, Torquay seems to be the hot spot for the gay community.
I like the idea to involve my wife, but wonder what her reaction would be to,
"Hello love, will you stick a dildo up my arse."
Anyone else with the same or similar situation.
