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YOU WILL NOT LIKE WHAT I SUGGEST .In MHO. you would be better off not pursuing that type of active.
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Quote by jackerbane
as most men i have a fantasy of watching my gf have sex or something like that.(
I'm not sure that's totally accurate. Most guys will not share the one they love, as with the ladies too.
I'll answer while I'm here. If you are the jealous type, I think that answers your question. If you are insecure about it, then I cant even comprehend how its a fantasy in the first place.
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that just means you care. some girls like their guys to be a little jealous. just calm down and know she only has eyes for you.
How can you harbor a fantasy that creates a jealousy in you? Can't wrap my head around that. Fantasies are suppose to make one happy, whole, excited, aren't they? Why would someone have a fantasy that brings on darkness, anger or...jealousy? I think you need to re-tool what a fantasy does for you and avoid the dark moments.
I agree with what has been posted. A fantasy should not make you feel bad. But jealousy is not in itself BAD in my opinion. But if you have it, you will not want to share your woman. I find most men and women are like this, and it is GOOD. Don't confuse what people post on sites like this with being 100% accurate or reflective of the masses. It isn't in most cases.
Fantasies are in many cases best left as such. They are like bells, once you ring them, they are rung! You can't go back. So pick and choose what you wish to follow through on concerning fantasies. And if you are a jealous person (even NORMAL levels) I always advise NOT doing 3somes, sharing, or any other fantasy that involves your partner being intimate with anyone else. It is not like trying a new food you think you will not like. You don't go from being jealous and having issues with it, to suddenly it being GREAT! It does not work like that. And in most cases, it becomes worse.
Fantasies are in many cases best left as such. They are like bells, once you ring them, they are rung! You can't go back. So pick and choose what you wish to follow through on concerning fantasies. And if you are a jealous person (even NORMAL levels) I always advise NOT doing 3somes, sharing, or any other fantasy that involves your partner being intimate with anyone else. It is not like trying a new food you think you will not like. You don't go from being jealous and having issues with it, to suddenly it being GREAT! It does not work like that. And in most cases, it becomes worse.
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If you are jealous then sharing is not for you. It will destroy your relationship and you are kidding yourself if you think you can over come it. I have seen it time and time again. Find another fantasy.
Quote by hankyspanky
I tink,if there is jelousy in a relationship then,one of the peoplf ,or both, didnt know where they where at from the start. Ladies have sexual urges too&why not? Guys,understand&accept&enjoy that!
With all due respect I can not disagree with that any more than I do. Jealousy is not only normal, but biological. And I also think it is healthy as long as within normal limits. It does not denote that one or more didn't know where they were from the start.
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I agree with what has been posted. A fantasy should not make you feel bad. But jealousy is not in itself BAD in my opinion. But if you have it, you will not want to share your woman. I find most men and women are like this, and it is GOOD. Don't confuse what people post on sites like this with being 100% accurate or reflective of the masses. It isn't in most cases.
Fantasies are in many cases best left as such. They are like bells, once you ring them, they are rung! You can't go back. So pick and choose what you wish to follow through on concerning fantasies. And if you are a jealous person (even NORMAL levels) I always advise NOT doing 3somes, sharing, or any other fantasy that involves your partner being intimate with anyone else. It is not like trying a new food you think you will not like. You don't go from being jealous and having issues with it, to suddenly it being GREAT! It does not work like that. And in most cases, it becomes worse.
Totally in agreement with many of the posts on here. It's a very slippery slope and once you've ventured down this path, it's a hard one to bounce back from ESPECIALLY if you're the jealous type. Stick with the role playing and find another fantasy you BOTH can live with.
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Personally I think a healthy dose of jealousy is good. Nothing nasty or mean, just that tinge in your tummy that says you don't want to share your baby. If my man wanted to share me I'd kick his ass to the curb, but that's just me 