H all you hot sexy lushers im wondering how to weed out unwanted inbox emails, im recently divorced and found i prefer female lovers and chat partners how do i stop all the horny men .. not that i dont like a hard man but her is an escape for me..
any idea's
Mia
There once was a guy who would not leave me alone. He kept insisting I call him on the phone. So I posted his number to a rather vindictive image board. As I understand it he had to change his number. I've never heard from him since.
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I find that it all depends on whats in my av - a while ago i had a nude picture of me up and i had a ton of friend requests. Back to my more subtle ones and i dont get them so often now, which i dont mind because it shows that people on here will only add you for one reason. I guess you're av attracts all the horny men you dont want.
ok, so here goes as one of the annoying males on here, I will say that the avatar certainly is what catches my attention and in your case to go in and check out your pics. I always try to check the biography before I add someone because as a straight male I get a similar situation from gay males, personally I will talk to anyone as long as they are respectful about it (and I try to practice this as well). changing or removing your avatar would help but I would still click and I think I have even sent you a friend request (yes, because you have amazing pics on your profile) but if I had seen that you were not interested in men or many want to talk to someone before they add them I would respect your wishes.
hope this helps.
-Brian
Welcome to an adult site in 2010.
All the women will get emails from guys (and gals), no matter what pics or lack thereof are on your profile.
Look at your av, of the naked female, and the text and pics on some of the other ones. See what they're "advertising"? You happen to be "another naked female" in their eyes, and will get the spam.
Like Chef said, use the Block feature for the idiots that keep trying, and I would recommend a note on your profile stating your reason for being here. Make it clear you won't accept friend requests and are not interested in guys. I hope it helps.
I think most people on this site are genuine. We will always be atracted to a profile with a sexy and naked person on it. However, most will also read the profile and when it say's no men, I expect the majority will respect that. The number of requests should reduce, making it less work to remove and/or block the rest.
..maybe if you show some respect you'll get some.. first off, dont add people you dont want; and if you delete folks, have the sense and courtesy to tell them why..! Jus a little Hint from Heloise.. (signed, you know who)
Mia, why don't you just say it on your profile. Don't go blaming guys they aren't mind readers. Plus nobody is forcing you to read those inbox emails, just treat it like spam and delete them if your not interested. But really, I think its unfair to blame guys. Your on Lush and you have a topless avatar so of course they're going to look?! I would just put it on your profile that your a lesbian now and give them fair warning at least.
1. Change your Avatar to something very unsexy.
2. Make your image gallery private.
3. Change your age to anything above 60
That should do it.