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If you were to get a divorce would you get married again?
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I have no idea. Was in the process of getting a divorce. After being married for 22 yrs and finding out I was the only one who was married, I find it very hard to trust. I never want to be treated that way again.
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My first marriage was a great disappointment, abusive cheating athlete and all that. Even though I'm a relationship kind of girl, telling me you wanted to or asking me to marry was pretty much a deal breaker. I didn't want to endure that again.
This is my husbands 2nd marriage as well and he was quite happy being single. We both made it clear that we were not looking for anything serious and would keep it light. He lived 2 hours away and it was pretty much see'ya when I see'ya. The sex was amazing and I felt comfortable. Well, we broke each other down. Which is a story unto itself.
I'm happy and can't imagine having what I have with anyone else. He's older, experienced and knows me better than I know myself. I feel undeniably loved. I can't imagine getting a divorce. But if I did, I wouldn't marry again. This time I mean it.
This is my husbands 2nd marriage as well and he was quite happy being single. We both made it clear that we were not looking for anything serious and would keep it light. He lived 2 hours away and it was pretty much see'ya when I see'ya. The sex was amazing and I felt comfortable. Well, we broke each other down. Which is a story unto itself.
I'm happy and can't imagine having what I have with anyone else. He's older, experienced and knows me better than I know myself. I feel undeniably loved. I can't imagine getting a divorce. But if I did, I wouldn't marry again. This time I mean it.
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I'm not planning a divorce any time soon...but, if one were to happen I think I would remarry again. I love the companionship of a woman, the sex, too...lol. Having been married almost 40 years to one woman and watching so many aspects of the relationship continue to grow, I am convinced that if two people are truly committed to building a covenant relationship, it can be a beautiful even if imperfect thing.
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I have no idea.
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They always say the third time is a charm, Well my wife is my third and I'm her third. So if we divorce, NO.
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Good Luck, Dude ... My best to you both! I'm 43 years in 2nd marriage and SHOULD HAVE bailed 25 years ago. Can't afford it now and we are mostly just "courteous friends" living in the same house.
MY LIFE BETWEEN VIRGINITY & CELIBACY spells it out.
Thanks Rick,
Had I stayed with my first wife, my story would have been the same as yours. Miserable and no sex.
I guess I have to say that marriage is not a big rush for us, especially seeing as we have been in that situation before. It will come when it feels right. I can't wait to call her my wife.
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Even if I got down on one knee?
Still probably not. But while your down there......;-)
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Quote by sweetleilani69
No never would get married again but would probably fall back into what i did before i got married,i'd go back to being a cocksucking whore
That's why I never married, lol.
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Quote by Mancman2010
Still probably not. But while your down there......;-)
At least it's not definitely!
Hey, it's a cockring, not an engagement ring. That's why I'm on one knee!
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Thanks Rick,
Had I stayed with my first wife, my story would have been the same as yours. Miserable and no sex.
I guess I have to say that marriage is not a big rush for us, especially seeing as we have been in that situation before. It will come when it feels right. I can't wait to call her my wife.
Your first sounds like the classic "marry in haste, repent at leisure".
I love how you say that you can't wait to call your girlfriend, your wife. Brings out the sentimentalist in me, and that's rare for this old cynic, lol.
I really hope that you're happy this time. Good luck.
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Thanks Rick,
Had I stayed with my first wife, my story would have been the same as yours. Miserable and no sex.
I guess I have to say that marriage is not a big rush for us, especially seeing as we have been in that situation before. It will come when it feels right. I can't wait to call her my wife.
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I don't think so.
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Quote by dpw
At least it's not definitely!
Hey, it's a cockring, not an engagement ring. That's why I'm on one knee!
A cockring! Well then I might say yes then. Lol!
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I am divorced, for many years now. Providing I find the right partner who is willing to wait until I am ready, I would like to be married again.
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I'm sure I would. I have the need and want to have my man proud enough of me to carry his name. It would really take alot for that to happen again due to the fact of the bitter divorce that is begun, but I have always wanted to be someone's wife and mother. I have been both and it's a shame that I didn't mean enough to him to try to keep me. That doesn't mean that I should hold his actions and transgretions against the next relationship that I enter.
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Couldn't see myself settling down again......don't think I can give myself to just one partner.
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Probably not . . . unless maybe I met FrogFrenzy 1327 three posts above. 
*THE DEVIL*
NO
I have a great family and quite content! That said, I got married at 35 and also enjoyed my single life..... I could never imagine topping or having another/next family, it takes EVERYTHING YOU HAVE to make it awesome and that's far too much work for 2nd best!!!
I would find myself on a tropical island just soaking it all in!!!!
I have a great family and quite content! That said, I got married at 35 and also enjoyed my single life..... I could never imagine topping or having another/next family, it takes EVERYTHING YOU HAVE to make it awesome and that's far too much work for 2nd best!!!
I would find myself on a tropical island just soaking it all in!!!!
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I am divorced and have been for a long time and i am still not sure weather I would marry again!
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