<RANT> I'm just curious because this has never happened to me before but there are some men whom I have never spoken to before, that are writing quite (borderline) aggressive messages. I guess I should explain myself. I get a lot of messages in my inbox and I'm generally busy offline so if I don't chat with you, don't act all offended that I didn't make you the centre of my universe lol It's creepy and that's definitely not drawing me to you. In terms of "hate friend collectors," please remember that you came to me. I never friend requested you. I just accepted your request. </RANT>
I have found most very friendly and willing to chat without going straight for my dick. Yes, those exceptions have found themselves BLOCKED. Just plain and simple... treat me like you are human and not some sex seeking alien.
Amber, the "remove friend" and "block" features need to become your best friends on here. Seriously.
When I first joined I accepted every FR, and was hesitant to defriend and block. I think it was John who actually told me to cowboy up and use those features. The people aren't notified and your life here on Lush is so much more pleasant without the creepers.
xxJennifer
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people are funny and I don,t mean comical. sticks and stones may break your bones- names forget it. anybody who says nasty things are juvenile and insignificant. I,m sure there are more people who love you than don,t. and always remember important people attract some weird people. mainly jealousy
