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why do ppl fall for ppl who don't fall for u
Because unrequited love is a bitch and someone out there wants us to suffer, methinks.
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Because unrequited love is a bitch and someone out there wants us to suffer, methinks.


This.
People fall for people because of varying degrees of appeal, not because the other person has fallen for them.
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why do ppl fall for ppl who don't fall for u


There a song to that effect, I think.
As for me, I see a pretty face, a gorgeous body, and I think the woman within is going to be as wonderful as she looks. It's been my experience that the opposite is often true. Once I get to know the person, the beauty that is outside gets masked by the apathy/ugly within, and I get my feelings hurt. That's why I'm on my third marriage - from "judging books by their cover," so to speak.

The only reason I married the third time is because, for the first time in my life, I missed her when we were apart. She was special on the inside, but I had to learn that before I was able to see beauty on the outside. This third time is truly a charm.
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why do ppl fall for ppl who don't fall for u


Often because they use text speak!
I agree with "Little Luce" mutual attraction is ideal, but little in life is ideal.
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I agree with you!


Articulation is an important aspect of love. Laughing my ass off. I hate text speak and I am from the generation who should like it. Yes on my phone but for any other time, NO!
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Articulation is an important aspect of love. Laughing my ass off. I hate text speak and I am from the generation who should like it. Yes on my phone but for any other time, NO!


I don't even have texting on my phone - had it for a while but got tired of people trying to save space by those acronyms and shortcuts.

You want to talk to me, then use proper grammar and spelling.

Back to the OP's question

Sometimes something about someone draws you in, and while they might make it clear that the interest is not reciprocated, you feel that if you do something different, that could change
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I don't even have texting on my phone - had it for a while but got tired of people trying to save space by those acronyms and shortcuts.

You want to talk to me, then use proper grammar and spelling.

Back to the OP's question

Sometimes something about someone draws you in, and while they might make it clear that the interest is not reciprocated, you feel that if you do something different, that could change

Well as there is an articulate posting I'll add my opinion, thanks Jason.
I also think that ego sometimes enters the equation, "how can they not like me, what's wrong with me". Then it can build up in the mind going from attraction through infatuation to unrequited love.
It is a psychological problem of desiring what you can't have. If they were all over you in the beginning you probably wouldn't want them.
Because we always want what we can't have.
Wanting "what we can't have" SOMETIMES plays a part in it, but as Luce said above, attraction ISN'T ALWAYS mutual.