Don't forget that LUSH problem ... BLACK BOX INTERUPTUS when on Lush ... really interrupts a good BLACK BOX - gasm. lol!!
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Yes ... I can relate to this.4W1Y4vmBblcZGIpX
Claw-gasm. For when he's just not finishing and you have to dig your nails into his back in a clawlike fashion. Turns out someone DOES like a little pain. Heh.
OMG...I want to live one of your memories. I wouldn't have the moxie to live it out in real life but I would love to have the experience.... and the orgasm (s).
You know they say the mind is the best sex organ. I believe it to be very true. I believe great orgasms have a lot to do with ones mind set about sex in general. I also believe you need to have complete trust in your sex partner along with complete openness with them on what each other likes and don't like. This creates a freedom with no anxiety about sex.
I credit Teach with opening me up to new and erotic sexual adventures. He was one of my high school teachers and eight years older. We started dating on my 17th birthday, and after a great dinner he became my 5th lover. I wanted to date him the year before when I first met him. I was his student assistant and had him for two classes. He would not go out with me until I became of legal age. Most of what he brought into our sex life I had never heard of. If I had they would have been thing I would have said then, "there is no way I'm going to do that!"
I had never heard of BDSM. Two months into our relationship I accepted his collar. Shortly after that he began offering me to others at my first gang bang. NOTE: I hope to post a story about that soon. On top of him making me feel very comfortable, and trusting him, that I would not be forced to do anything I did not want to do, I could not get pregnant. I lost that ability in a traffic accident when I was 12.
With out telling me he put me into situations that was both very confusing and extremely erotic turn ons. One was sharing me with other men and women. I chose to continue because of the fantastic sensations and the erotic turn ons far out weighed the confusion. Which soon went away. He offered to let me just stay and watch or he would take me home if I wished. It was my decision, with no pressure from him, to stay and participate. I had fantastic sensations and orgasms the very first day like I had never experienced before. I had had great ones from my very first time several years and boyfriends before Teach.
I believe it was this path that was made available to me, and I chose to follow, that allows for such a pleasurable sex life. Hubbie coined a fraise for it, "Sport Fucking" about a year after we were married. Which was right after he found out I had a kinky side. We will be married 38 years in August. The same excitement I discovered when I was 17 is still with me and will be even stronger in about four hours. In fact the anticipation has been building all day. We consider this part of foreplay. He has called me several times telling me what he will do with me tonight at the swing club.
Hubbie and I do still make love 2 to 4 times a week, which is much different than our "Sport Fucking." Steven who is Hubbie's best friend and the first one he shared me with, and his wife are the only others I / we make love with. All the rest is "Sport Fucking." Hubbie and Steven are both 1,000% straight. I am Bi and Kim is half Bi. She will do everything but eat pussy.
We realize this is not for every one. That for some even the fantasy is too much. But it works for us.
Also none of this has been, or is, alcohol or drug induced. No false courage needed with us. Neither of us drink very much or smoke at all.