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being the other woman? being the victim of the other woman? sheesh.... over time this has become a less black and white issue for me.
as life goes on i am learning that different people meet different needs in my life.... i meet different needs for them as well.... the question is how do we manage to mutually reduce pain? is there even a way to do this? should we even attempt this?
let us be joyful and find breathless moments in one another's company.
being the "other" woman/man means this .... you don't get to share "their" birthday with them, the holidays, major milestones, etc.
usually, being the "other" woman/man means .... they are never really yours, because someone else is held in higher priority than you ever will be. You may be their "true" love - but what is true love if everyone can't be honest.
I say ... been there and experienced it as the "other" woman .... it was not worth it. It was a waste of three precious years - and he was a selfish bastard for thinking he worked hard and "deserved" more than what he had signed up for. I learned my lesson!
usually, being the "other" woman/man means .... they are never really yours, because someone else is held in higher priority than you ever will be. You may be their "true" love - but what is true love if everyone can't be honest.
I say ... been there and experienced it as the "other" woman .... it was not worth it. It was a waste of three precious years - and he was a selfish bastard for thinking he worked hard and "deserved" more than what he had signed up for. I learned my lesson!
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there is enough room in my heart for more then one... maybe not true love, but there are more kinds of love, and often, the line blurs enough to include others beyond the woman whom is my soul-mate, and hers does as well, something i am not only comfortable with, but encourage.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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being the "other" woman/man means this .... you don't get to share "their" birthday with them, the holidays, major milestones, etc.
usually, being the "other" woman/man means .... they are never really yours, because someone else is held in higher priority than you ever will be. You may be their "true" love - but what is true love if everyone can't be honest.
I say ... been there and experienced it as the "other" woman .... it was not worth it. It was a waste of three precious years - and he was a selfish bastard for thinking he worked hard and "deserved" more than what he had signed up for. I learned my lesson!
YEp. What Yahtzee said. I am reminded of Bob Dylan's song, Don't Think Twice: "You just wasted my precious time..."
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster