Quote by chefkathleen
Ok. This is totally stirring the shit but, why would you do something that you're ashamed of? And if you're not ashamed, then why not own it?
Also, if you don't want your spouse to know, then isn't that a form of cheating? Or is it called deception by omission?
No judgement, just curious.
My partner and a few friends know but I wouldn't want my colleagues knowing because it has nothing to do with them this part of my life...Also I wouldn't want my mom or sister reading my stuff the thought is too weird...
I don't know if ashamed is the word more cautious because giving them leverage like this could lead to me getting fired.Some people are very small minded especially about erotica and sex...I used to hide my picture but now my AV is a picture of me so I'm not really concealing anything but not advertising it either to everyone...
