not or are not honest, to their partner about their sexual fantasy?
Are you having problems getting the wife to tell you her sexual fantasy?
Maybe she doesn't trust you. Could you have given her reason not to trust you?
Why on earth wouldn't you share your fantasies with your partner?? Unless you dream of coitus with barnyard animals or are into some super weird shit, why not talk about it? Obviously, there are no guarantees your partner will always be game BUT it will open the lines of communication and that's when compromises are made to ensure a win/win situation for all. It's what we mature grown-ups call communication. It's revolutionary!!
So, you're saying the barnyard animal thing is out? Just checkin'