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What was your source of sex education?

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Cryptic Vigilante
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Felix the Cat was a close second.


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My experience is the son of mistakes difficult.
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I suppose my education with sex wasn't too different from that of most people. School was where things began, which was largely STDs=bad and you're-gonna-get-pregnant, but I feel like the internet did a good job filling in the rest. By the time I actually did have sex I knew the risks and dangers but also (kinda) knew about erogenous zones, different positions, and the importance of foreplay. However, I didn't get better or do any serious learning until I managed to practice... over and over and over. Having an eager-to-teach partner is a must.

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My sister and that's probably all I can say about that
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My parents explained most of it, school added to the knowledge, some things I learned from porn, and the rest I learned by trial and error
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It was explained to me by friends at a slumber party. I was stunned and I wasn't sure that I believed them.
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One of my mother's friends, a lonely widow, when I was a young man. She taught me everything I know about sex. Forever grateful for the education, dear lady. RIP.
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School was mostly about avoiding getting STD's and getting pregnant. The Internet filled in the blanks. As for avoiding getting pregnant, how did that work out?
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Trial and error. I knew what mine was, I found what hers was, I knew where to put it. The sum total of my knowledge until I found porn sixty years later.
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I accidently found my older brother's stash of dirty mags
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Well I have to say some of the older boys were very helpful.....but then they told me I needed a lot of practice. They really were good sports helping with all that practice, they made sure I got it right....lol.
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My dad was the janitor at an all-girls bording school and my family lived with him in the guest house on campus. When dad was extra busy, I picked up the slack by helping with repairs in the dormitories. Funny - they were always having pillow fights whenever I was there and always seemed to accidentally break stuff just when I was finishing the initial repair. Geez, those girls were so clumsy....wait, what were we talking about again?
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Would you believe that it was actually sex ed? Like, in school? Because unlike some countries(*COUGH...COUGHAMERICASTOPWITHTHEABSTINENCEBULLSHIT..COUGHCOUGH* Sorry, allergies, you know how it is.), France actually has a decent and relatively thorough sex ed program, connected to bio classes, as early as secondary school and going all along high school.

The rest came from my parents, who were very tactful, and of course a lot of movies I watched too early for my age. Didn't watch porn until my late-teens though, which I'm pretty happy about, or had actual sex for that matter, which I'm not as glad about restrospectively.
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At an early age I found a stack of magazines hidden away in a closet. I would sneak them out and read them....they were my dad's stack of Penthouse Forums. Was an eye opener, but also got me very curious when my body started doing new things that I couldn't understand. After having my self imposed orgasm I found the need to have someone else give me one. I never looked back from there.
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Sister Mary Helen. A very short course I still remember every word.
"Don't ever! And I mean NEVER"
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The correct place - the gutter.
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My first boyfriend taught me a lot. My job taught me everything else
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my instructional manual came in the form of my mother and step-father's first cousin
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The experience of eating out my cousin taught me to please a woman.
The silence from my parents taught me to obsess over sex.
The rest happened organically.
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I kinda make shit up as I go along
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Blow jobs, fucking from (1-1/2 year older) boyfriend in high school (lost my vaginal virginity in the summer between my junior and senior years in high school - more from a lack of privacy/opportunity than from a lack of desire) followed by moderately experience in college. Learned about anal during my internship at a law firm from my mentor (I was aged 26 at the time).
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Mindful of our TOS:

Puberty did not come with an instruction manual. It took my stepbrother's intervention to enlighten me. It happened the day I was in my room working on a Revell plastic model of a German Junkers JU 87 or Stuka dive-bomber.

Suddenly Marty, my 14-year-old stepbrother, barged through my door and said, "Ya gotta come with me and see what I discovered. It's wicked cool."

I followed him upstairs into the attic where, without a warning or word of explanation, he dropped his pants and pulled down his underwear as he flopped down on the mattress and started to play with himself.

I was bug-eyed and speechless as I watched events unfold. After a few minutes, he finished and raced downstairs to shower and clean up.

I went to my room, locked my door and mimicked what I had seen him do to himself.

Like, WOW! I had no idea self-abuse could be so much fun.

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First I need to mention I lost my uterus at age 11, when a beer truck ran a red light and hit the front of the motorcycle I was riding on behind my father. So I did not have to worry about getting pregnant.
This info needed for #7. When I was 10 I fell on a big beam like they use in gymnastics and it broke my hymen. Hubbie knew about it so when we first made love it was not a surprise to him that there was no restriction or bleeding.

There were many sources:

1) I accidentally discovered masturbation while taking a shower. The wash cloth rubbing against my
clit caused me to have my first orgasm. I had no idea what had just happened, but I did know I
liked it. Which lead to #2.

2) Not knowing what happened I went to see my best friend. She was two years older than me and
she knew everything. She told me I had had an orgasm through masturbation. Our conversation
got sexier. Which lead to #3.

3) She showed me how to use cucumbers, zucchini squash, sausage, and a mini baseball bat as a
dildo. And also could practice giving blow jobs with our veggies. Which lead to #4.

4) Our sleep overs got more frequent, especially at her house, as we would be alone every morning.
She taught me how to kiss, suck on each other’s nipples and finger each other’s pussy. We did
eventually get a real dildo that vibrated. Which lead to #5.

5) Boys. I started dating and was now able to apply what she taught me to the real thing and shortly
lost my virginity. I dated 4 guys and each had a little something to add to my sex education.
Which lead to #6

6) I started dating Teach, one of my high school teachers. He was 8 years older than me and after
dinner on our first date we went to his apartment and fucked for several hours. The longest before
that was about 15 to 20 minutes. We would have 5 min of kissing and playing with my tits, 5 to 10
minutes of sucking his cock. I did have orgasms when they shot in my mouth. Then 5 minutes of
fucking. I had lots of first with Teach. About two months into our relationship I became his
submissive sex slave. About a month later he took me to a 3 day party which turned out to be
“My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower.” Parts 1 & 2 are posted here. That weekend I had a lot
more firsts. Now to #7.

7) About the same time I started dating Teach, I started dating Hubbie. For the first two years I did
learn much because he did not try to get into my pants. I broke up with him two or three times.
We would do a lot of kissing but he did not even try to feel me up. When I tried to rub his cock he
would stop me and tell me it was not the right time yet. I broke up with him because I thought he
was gay. Then I found out he was very serious about not having sex until he knew he would marry
the gal he gave his virginity to and she gave him hers. I had lied to him about being a virgin.

About two years before we got married we finally made love. I was very surprised at how good of
a lover he was. In fact he was the first guy to actually make love to me. So what I learned with
Hubbie was what I thought was making love was actually fucking. He had been studying human
sexuality since he was 11 or 12. His father had a subscription to “Sexology Magizine” and when he
started asking questions he answered them truthfully and gave him the magizine to read. It was
like a penthouse forum but written in a more scientific and educational manner instead of erotic.

About a year after we were married he let me know he found out that I had lied to him about my
virginity. He thought about leave me, but when he found out about my wild and slutty side it
Turned him on like nothing had before. Our sex life was now a very loving one still but he also
brought in the kinky side and started showing me off dressed like a slut. I accepted his collar and
became his submissive sex slave. Then he started sharing me with other men, women, and some
couples.

Over the last 38 years we have been very active in the BDSM scene. I have been auctioned off to
other Masters, loaned to other Masters and used like a hooker to get big discounts on stock for a
small privately owned department store. Worked as a hooker in a legal brothel outside of Los
Vegas. Entered in amature stripper contest, flashing truckers by fucking my self for them, and
caught a few, fucking the driver and on one occasion an operator of the equipment they were
hauling. I am offered to total strangers at swing clubs. I could go on and on, but I have some
where erotic to go tonight.

Our sex life has been a very active one, mostly on the erotic side. Playing in the swinger, BDSM,
Exhibitionist, sex in public places, groups, gang bangs, Bukkake parties, and a lot more genres. It
has been one hell of a good ride.

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Like most kids lots of hear-say and others bragging, fumbl through discovering the female body with a couple of girlfriends in my teens then the MIRACLE: summer of 1972, I was 19 and a volunteer lifeguard on beach near home, this lady (her name was Bruna) asked me if I could help her with a flat tyre on her Jaguar, as a properly brought up young gentleman I obliged, got seriously sweaty and covered in dust, she offers me a ride to her summer house to have a shower and to "properly" thank me for the help I gave her. I was expecting a tip from the rich woman . . . . she gave me more tips than I could handle, I will be forever grateful!
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A sweet curious friend who became my first partner (and I his), willing to explore slowly and find out what we both liked.

Oh, and the older cousin who told me not to have intercourse with a guy until after he'd proved he could give me an orgasm. Preferably orally. She was the one who made me look carefully for the first boyfriend.
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