Everything you wanted to know about phone sex but were afraid to ask

30 Oct 2009

Do you do phone sex with your significant other or with phone sex operators like me? If with PSOs, does your wife/gf know you do it? Any phone sex questions you want answered?

30 Oct 2009

I've had phone sex with girlfriends, sometimes it was mostly just listening to each other masturbate and other times we described or said out loud what we would be doing if we were next to each other, while masturbating.

Never tried phone sex with a operator or a stranger before. What does a typical conversation look like? I am completely ignorant to professional phone sex.

In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
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30 Oct 2009

A "typical" caller wants me to give him a bj. Those calls are the least interesting and I rarely get excited by them. I try to make calls more interesting, when possible. Different locations and different sexual positions enhance the experience. The best phone sex is when the caller participates more fully. It becomes more give and take. I get to know my regulars on a deeper level, what makes them tick and more about their personal lives. That all adds to our conversations. Of course, men call to cum and that's what my ultimate goal is. I want them to get off happy.

30 Oct 2009

I can't imagine the caller not responding - to be like sex it has - in my opinion to be 2 way. But I would have doubts about the sincerity of the operator? Don't get me wrong I'm not saying that is the case but just what my perhaps cynical brain leans towards.

30 Oct 2009

I don't get why you said it maks you question the sincerity of the operator. I always want to give callers what they ask for. I give them a bj if that's what they want from me. They cum and they go. What's to question?

31 Oct 2009

Living so far away from my lover, we have phone sex almost daily. I love to hear him cum and hearing me cum makes his cums that much better. Neither of us were very vocal when having sex with different people in the past but have found from our phone sex sessions that when we are together the vocalization does it more for us.

31 Oct 2009

Elaine, how did you get started doing phone sex? (you don't have to answer if you don't want to.)

31 Oct 2009

Quote by gypsymoth
Elaine, how did you get started doing phone sex? (you don't have to answer if you don't want to.)

I don't mind answering, Gypsy. Despite my university degrees, I hit some snags and was financially strapped. I had friends that I did phone sex with and they suggested that I could kill two birds with one stone. I could enjoy phone sex AND get paid for it. I thought it over long and hard (no pun intended) and decided it made sense. It did change my life for the better. It helped me through the tough times and eventually I started doing some nonsex work to supplement my income. I could have given up phone sex due to my other job but frankly, it's so much fun that I decided to continue doing it parttime. I love it and things are working out perfectly now.