I'm just an older guy who is still searching for sexual fulfillment. I am married to a wonderful woman (almost 50 years) who could care less about sex. As I said in my profile, we're from two different worlds. I may be wrong, but I concluded that sex with another man isn't as bad a cheat against my wife as cheating with another woman. I'm a bisexual, so a man's cock is as pleasurable as a woman's pussy. I would like some feedback, and I would love to hear from both men and women. Thanks.
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Yes, welcome Olderfriend.
Well, IMHO, sex is sex regardless of, er ... well, sex(gender). You're still having sex with someone not your spouse, though you may wish to sit down and have a heart to heart about not having sex, if she wont, perhaps she could be open to your needs.
I agree, personally i think cheating is cheating whether its with a man or a woman, and I think your wife would feel the same way. The only way to deal with this is to sit down and to talk to her about it. She might want to start having sex again or she may be ok with you sleeping with others but the only way to find out is to talk to her. At least then you wont be going behind her back.
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Welcome & Ditto, Olderfriend.
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Funny I recently had an at length conversation about this topic with my bff who is a shrink and she was of the opinion that a heterosexual woman catching her man cheating with a man is far more of a traumatic experience than with another woman though both are a huge betrayal. I think if I was a guy in that situation it would just be easier to pay for it!
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Yes, welcome Olderfriend.
Well, IMHO, sex is sex regardless of, er ... well, sex(gender). You're still having sex with someone not your spouse, though you may wish to sit down and have a heart to heart about not having sex, if she wont, perhaps she could be open to your needs.
I agree, personally i think cheating is cheating whether its with a man or a woman, and I think your wife would feel the same way. The only way to deal with this is to sit down and to talk to her about it. She might want to start having sex again or she may be ok with you sleeping with others but the only way to find out is to talk to her. At least then you wont be going behind her back.
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I'm just an older guy who is still searching for sexual fulfillment. I am married to a wonderful woman (almost 50 years) who could care less about sex. As I said in my profile, we're from two different worlds. I may be wrong, but I concluded that sex with another man isn't as bad a cheat against my wife as cheating with another woman. I'm a bisexual, so a man's cock is as pleasurable as a woman's pussy. I would like some feedback, and I would love to hear from both men and women. Thanks.
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I'm just an older guy who is still searching for sexual fulfillment. I am married to a wonderful woman (almost 50 years) who could care less about sex. As I said in my profile, we're from two different worlds. I may be wrong, but I concluded that sex with another man isn't as bad a cheat against my wife as cheating with another woman. I'm a bisexual, so a man's cock is as pleasurable as a woman's pussy. I would like some feedback, and I would love to hear from both men and women. Thanks.
I didn't know there was an inner circle of friends.
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Is that like one of those "circle jerks" deals I keep hearing about?
BTW: maybe it's just me, but on my monitor, "olderfriend" shows up as a "guest" with no profile.
Whatever your status, welcome from one old fart to another.
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a place to gossip, share news, talk sports, pimp a story, piss & moan, or just grab a drink. Check it out.
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