...Does being "penetrated" and "intruded" by an external object (and correspondingly, "splitting", "opening" by one's act of thrusting), suggest that "force" or "violence" is an inherent part of the sense of pleasure (in a subconscious level) that we get of sexual intercourse?
On on a certain level, I'm sure it does.
Would be happy if you could share what would be the "level" as you said? The element of "force" or "violence" in sexual act between a man and a woman could be that sensation (and feeling) of "oh he is inside me...filling me"...From such feeling of pleasure and satisfaction of being connected and intimate, does that also suggest for instance that women (secretly) wishes to be , an assumption that would revolt against one's sense of propriety? What would be man's corresponding feelings?
I will not lie that there is some part of me that enjoys being 'invaded'. But I must point out here that I only enjoy the idea of it when it is with someone I trust. I do not condone , when it is seriously forced about someone who does not want contact. But the idea of roughness, of 'being split' by someone I know I can trust with the power to hurt me, but won't use it to crush me or destroy me, is appealing. It all depends on the level of trust for me, depends on how violent or rough I will allow it to become.
