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For guys, have you ever been declined for sex because your dick is too big?

For girls, have you ever declined a guy because it's too big for you??

It happened to me as she claimed she had bad experience with a huge dick- and nothing worked to convince her, not even after offering cunnilingus, I found that puzzling.
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For guys, have you ever been declined for sex because your dick is too big?

For girls, have you ever declined a guy because it's too big for you??

It happened to me as she claimed she had bad experience with a huge dick- and nothing worked to convince her, not even after offering cunnilingus, I found that puzzling.



Well if that isn't a blatant advert but after seeing the pics I see what you mean.

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Well if that isn't a blatant advert but after seeing the pics I see what you mean.

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Advert what?

It's not funny, she wasn't the first btw, one time I was declined online for the same reason sad.
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Advert what?

It's not funny, she wasn't the first btw, one time I was declined online for the same reason sad.


YOU might have been on line but the head of you cock was right next to her!
If only you were gay *sigh* you'd have a queue a mile long.BIn6GDS1lNr5viHt
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No, but I've wished I had afterward smile I've also hesitated upon discovery of his large equipment, and then finally gave in later.
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No, but I've wished I had afterward smile I've also hesitated upon discovery of his large equipment, and then finally gave in later.

His equipment? You make it sound like he came to clear your drains.
Oh he did!
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Advert what?

It's not funny, she wasn't the first btw, one time I was declined online for the same reason sad.



It IS funny! Don't "advert what?" either... just like any guy that will post on here with their stories of being dissed for dick dimensions, you're not so casually showing off the piece.

Still, even more entertaining to me are the guys that always brag about being hung. It's not always a good thing. You're sometimes a sideshow. Nothing but a curiosity. Intimidating. Even damaging like LadyX implied when she said she wished afterwards she had declined.

If you're braggin', ya ain't packin'.
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I never have, but if I was afraid it was going to tear me up like giving birth, damn right I'd turn it down... or at least need an adjustment period or something.
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That's the one "big" (pun intended) advantage to be just slightly bigger than what I've been given to understand is "average" (that average being 6") I've had no problems or complaints either way! (Although I HAVE surprised a couple of women who'd previously had sex with guys who were hung like Clydesdales and thought I couldn't possibly satisfy them! My former wife among them. LOL) I DO remember one hooker in Vietnam who did "check" first! She only rejected ONE potential "client"! LOL I think his was one of the 10" variety.
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omg dpw again peeing myself laughing..advert...well he is a big boy is he not...lol

my goodness muffin man god did give you ah a big package..whew

guess she DIDNT know the muffin man ahhhhh!!!!

I think it would be a bit..ah...well disconcerting

but if I was in love I would try

I think you would need patience and tons of foreplay

or perhaps date women who has had kids

after pushing some human basketballs out the wahoo ..hey that is nothing

but all kidding aside

I am sorry

it must hurt to be turned down for being too big

as it would for being too small

welcome to lush!!

and us who have good hearts and sarcastic mouths..
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omg dpw again peeing myself laughing..advert...well he is a big boy is he not...lol

my goodness muffin man god did give you ah a big package..whew

guess she DIDNT know the muffin man ahhhhh!!!!

I think it would be a bit..ah...well disconcerting

but if I was in love I would try

I think you would need patience and tons of foreplay

or perhaps date women who has had kids

after pushing some human basketballs out the wahoo ..hey that is nothing

but all kidding aside

I am sorry

it must hurt to be turned down for being too big

as it would for being too small


dpw had the same thought I did, NOTHING brings 'em like puttin' out the word!

welcome to lush!!

and us who have good hearts and sarcastic mouths..



dpw had the same thought I did when I first read it. NOTHING brings 'em in like puttin' out the word!
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Women are different sizes just like men, so it is not inconceivable that some men are too large for some women to comfortably accommodate.
I have women tell me often enough that they are "very small, you know" without having a clue as to what my size is (which I am not indicating in any way here). But USUALLY with proper lubrication and gradual opening to accept a large size, it becomes possible for most couples to enjoy themselves.
But I don't doubt that there may be men who are too large for most women or some women too small for most men.
I do have a friend who got so well known to the ladies on one particular site, that, after initial disbelief at his claims of generous endowment (lol...best way I can find to put it!), he took one trip at the request of one lady who confirmed to the other women that he was indeed as advertised, and he has since visited more than a few of those women. I know that from the women, all of whom were apparently quite happy to have had him pay them a visit. smile
So if we can change the old biblical proverb, let us try this: "One woman's poison is another woman's feast!" lol
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Just to clarify, I am not big, mine is 17 cm to be exact but I am of a small stature body wise hence why It may appears huge, my partners are usually petites.
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Just to clarify, I am not big, mine is 17 cm to be exact but I am of a small stature body wise hence why It may appears huge, my partners are usually petites.

Apologies, although you're in the average size range for penises. I admit it does look a lot bigger but as you're body is small it would look big. It does surprise me that you'd be turned down for size issues!
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Personally I've never encountered a cock big enough to frighten me off ... but they certainly are out there.

My friend, however, does report such an experience. Her description of the guy's penis was surreal to me ... but it must have been enormous and certainly sufficient to cause her severe pain with every upward stroke inside her.

Personally I love to feel my man hammer away at my cervix with his erect cock ... its a very intimate sensation to me. Clearly not in her case. The question is ... was he too big? ... or was she too small internally?

Whichever way it was enough for her to finish the so called relationship.
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Ya Ive been denied before.. Ive even had a girl end a relationship because of my size. Scaring a gf away is a big hit to the ego.
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turbo we need proof..lol and an ID please you look my sons age(which will be awesome when you are older!)...smile

I cannot believe women do this when every porn video out there has HUGE members

me I like average..

but I have never met a woman who has told me she has met a guy with a penis so big she turned him down

and frankly some of my friends were..ah OUT there

smh
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I have known some women --- not because of my cock but of their lovers -- who have complained about girth but the biggest complaint I remember hearing was a friend I used to work with had a problem with her boyfriend being too long. She said he kept hitting her cervix and it would send excrutiating pain every time he did. She loved him but dreaded sex. She could only bear it a short time and have to either suck him off or let him have her butt. I had seen him at the gym and never hard. So could only go by her word on how long he actually was. Soft he looked average.
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I find this a huge problem in my daily sexual encounters. They just don't know the enormity of my passion for them. I can hold back my immense appreciation for them without all the drama of "oh my god," or "what the hell is that thing?"

I am just perplexed. I can't find someone who has depth, and a willingness to explore their abyss without protest.
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I've never turned a guy down because he was too big, but was a little disappointed he didn't know how to use it.
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I think its fear women have. One of my guy friends was denied by a woman who saw his. But the woman gave him a hand job.
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No, but just a little bit of hesitation (;
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Quote by TexasSon
If you're braggin', ya ain't packin'.


Best line EVER!

(I might have to steal this one)
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I can't say that I ever turned anyone down or broke up with anyone just because of the size of their cock. My ex husband, despite his stature, was/is larger than average particularly in his girth and because of that, certain positions were uncomfortable and sometimes even painful, but I stuck it out with him for 20 years.

If you care for someone, I can't imagine ending it just because of their size alone (big or small). There are so many variations to having great intercourse but it all starts with a conversation.
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Open for interpretation......

“If you find it hard to laugh at yourself, I would be happy to do it for you."
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My ex husband, despite his stature, was/is larger than average particularly in his girth and because of that, certain positions were uncomfortable and sometimes even painful, but I stuck it out with him for 20 years.


There's not much mirth
With too much girth.
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There's not much mirth
With too much girth.


I change my mind...THIS is the best line EVER!
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THere's been quite a few surveys that have said women do not particularly care for the size of a man's penis, but rather their stamina. After all a Bazooka only fires one round while a gun just keeps on going...Unless it jams.
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This thread still alive? :-/
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This thread still alive? :-/


Obviously it is!!

I had a one night stand with a guy a couple of years ago and it was very uncomfortable due to his size. I didn't reject him, I took on the challenge so to speak and when we found a position that suited us both it was great. The next day however, was a different story. I still get the chillies (and not in a good way) when I see this guy.